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How do I keep my wife from finding out I was cheating on her?

I was cheating on my wife with my secretary, and my secretary got pregnant. How do I keep my wife from finding out?

Update:

How much will it cost to get rid of the mistake?

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    karma happens....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Did you ever look on a birth certificate and see where there's a question that asks for the fathers name? Whats your Secretary going to put there, UNKNOWN???

    If she puts your name you are soooo BUSTED!!!! . Since she is so sleazy as to sleep with a married man, she might not put your name as the father. What would you have her do, are you man enough to shoulder your part in this? DOUBTFUL!!!!

    All you seem to be worried about is your worthless marriage, Yes I said WORTHLESS, because were it otherwise you wouldn't be in this predicament. Funny how the old saying "hindsight is 20/20"

    come back to bite you in the ***.

    Do you even care about the child you created out of wedlock with this woman or what kind of situation you put her in? Doesn't seem so!

    All you seem worried about is you. You are self centered.

    For shits sake BE A MAN and tell her and support the woman who's having your child as well as the baby.

    Were you going to abandon them as you did with you wife?

    If you support the woman and child, your wifes going to wonder where that money is going.

    maybe you prefer to keep quite and let the taxpayers support the child, in which case the state will demand the fathers name and you'll be forced to support the child and pay all medical bill incurred by the mother to have the child.

    So you better own up to it with your wife.

  • 1 decade ago

    Is your name John Edwards? Take a que from what he has done to his family and come clean now before you drag everyone through the mud. Be prepared to loose everyone and start paying for your love child. You will most likely loose your job too. Poor girl has no idea what she will loose because of this too! Before you loose you job you might want to invest in alot of condoms so this never happens again! Or better yet get fixed, it only keeps you from getting other pregnant , It does not make you any smarter about cheating on a loved one.

    I feel for you wife and possible other children, I hope it was worth it to you because I am sure your 30 minutes of passion will not cure their life long pain of what you have done to them.

  • 1 decade ago

    Guess you should have thought of the possible repercussions of your actions before you began having sex outside of your marriage.

    I hope your wife takes you to the cleaners. Between giving her half of everything, and paying child support to the mother of your bastard child, you are defiantly going to be hurting. You might want to think things through with the top head in the future, before letting the little heads dictate the shots.

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  • 1 decade ago

    it is only fair if you tell her. what if she ended up prego and allowed you to believe the baby was yours and it wasn't. although that is a little more so messed up it still is pretty messed up to keep her in the dark when you are going to be a daddy of a different mother. plus you owe it to this kid that is now 1/2 your responsitility to grow up and be a part of his/her life. you can not keep your wife in the dark forever!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Trust me,

    SHE KNOWS

    Your secretary is not just good at taking messages. She is also good at giving messages as well...LOL..particularly to your wife.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well now your going to be paying your secretary in child support checks. I don't think this question is legit anyhow.

  • 1 decade ago

    people that have secretaries don't come on YA, LOL

  • 1 decade ago

    No worries. Your wife's giving birth to my kid, so we're even.

  • 1 decade ago

    one i think you should tell her the kinmd of man you are!!!!! really you do not desserve her!!!! your a dirtbag! you should grow some you know what and tell the truth! Or I hope she finds out!

  • Poppy
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Not likely going to.

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