Voices from German Guys with Thai wives or the Thai wives of German Guys Needed?

Your question is really funny - He is acting just like a Thai man.

You say you are not after money but that is all you talk about here - very much Thai style

I think you have to consider German men on case by case basis, they are not all same. However, Thai people are certainly same same.

Chookdee

Your boyfriend is a staller, he wants you to wait for everything; marriage, money, commitment. You have been living with him for 4 years, and he can't even help you start your own businees if you offer to repay him? If you are happy with his style then stay, if not, tell him the truth why you are leaving. I'm guessing he will just move on to another Thai girl that will put up with his selfish behavior; four years is 2 year too long for his type. You are being too nice to someone that dosen't care about you.

You say that you are not racist, yet continue the paragraph by degrading Asian women. Did you ever consider that the German guys could not find a German wife? Yes, it is more of a business/arranged marriage situation, but that doesn't mean that it cannot be a win-win situation or that there is no love or affection. And regarding the whole: "As Asian women age, their faces become flatter and broader and they tend to look brittle (prone to osteoporsis -- brittle bones because of their small frames )" - Du burde skamme dig.

I only hear your side of the story. I don't know a lot about your situation, but it sounds like he is making a joke of you. Maybe he thinks that Germany is a highly modern country and Thailand is a 3 world flyspot on the map. Does he give you any money?? He got a free ride for 4 years.

Your BF sounds like he is tight. On the other hand, 400,000 Baht is a fair amount of money, even for us farang! Not sure if you have realised this, but in western society, money is not associated with love and relationships. Us farang like to think that our girlfriends are with us because they actually love us and not our money.

My advise for you is to find a BF that is prepared to meet your financial requirements.

Hey babe, I am sorry but he is just using you for sure. It does not matter what race you are or where you come from. A boyfriend and girlfriend should help each other out.

I know he is using you, cause I know some American guys who do this to my Thai friends along, saying that they will marry them some day, but never do.

I have hung out with westerners who laughed and said, this is how you get a free girlfriend in Thailand, tell them you will marry them and wait wait wait.

I hope this helps, but sometimes you just gotta leave you know.

To answer your questions.

1. No only the a$$holes

2. If you where my girlfriend of course i would help you if i can (i usually love my girlfriend ;-) . But then again after what you

have written it looks like this relationship was never based on love...

3. i don´t "buy" wifes.

4. I guess you know the answer

5. NO but you should not start this kind of "relationships" anyway

greetings

sounds like you are typical greedy money hungry Thai who cannot satisfy her man in bed

You got to be kidding me.