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Am i doing something wrong?
i'm happily married, but i always flirt other girls.
People rank me as handsome and Smart person, I'm successfull with my job and always smart looking. And women pay attention over me, but it never ended with a relation, once we proceed with flirting I turn things to become friendly.
so tell me am i doing anything wrong?
5 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
For someone who is "happily" married, meandering with other women has a certain distinction that clamors to a certain aspect of your mind.
It isn't to say that flirting is some sort of taboo that requires divine retribution. But flirting by it's very nature; possibly on a subconscious level, implicates several things.
1. Your available, married or not.
2. Your interested.
3. Your thoughts revolve around the person your flirting with, lustful or not.
4. Your looking for stimulating arousal, verbal or not.
The fact that you pull out just before things kick themselves into high gear, serves only to appease your sense of morality. You seem to understand that these women are interested in you and it is because you understand that, that you allow things to progress as far as they do. Instead of kindly flashing your wedding band.
However, it could be worse.
So are you doing anything wrong?
Relatively, No.....
Objectively, Yes...
- 1 decade ago
YES its not right to flirt with some if u have a wife and this is coming from some one who has a gf and is at the flirting age so if u do not want to cut ur pension in half then stop flirting with other woman
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
So long as it is just flirting then you are not doing any harm, but be careful its easy to cross the line from flirting to a relationship. Also, think how your wife would feel if she saw this flirting with other girls, and how would you feel if you saw her flirting?
- 1 decade ago
Of course youre not.
You're only human. Women and men alike love a good flirt.
As soon as you cross the line and take it a step further, then youre in trouble.
Otherwise just make sure you're subtle about your flirting and that it doesn't get you in any sticky situations and youre good! :o)
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- 1 decade ago
if your married, you DONT need to be flirting with other girls/women. you already decided your wife is the one you love and you need to pay attenetion to her and not any other women. sorry to pop your bubble, but thats just the way it is!!