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Looking for the right girl?

ok here's my problem I'm 18, I'm a High school senior right? I'm on a sports team and I live in Michigan, now I'm unemployed and everywhere I go they might say there hiring but by next week they say that there positions are filled and that Pisses me off! but not only that I am trying to find a girl who hasn't done three things (doesn't smoke, Doesn't Drink until 21, and who hasn't (done) it yet<you know the nasty> and it's hard trying to find a girl around here!) if you live in Niles where's the best place to try and find a young Beautiful single girl? I need to know cause I'm tired of asking and all they give me is "its all right dude just be patient they'll come to you" and that just makes me Mad cause I want to yell at them and say "Yeah well thanks allot Side buster!"

Update:

thanks for the support renee, Mike its not that easy getting a job here ya know!, and wicked thats not the awnser I was looking for and to the other two that felt my pain well lets just say that the church I go to does g=have teen girls but not many are who'm i like. Its hard finding the right girl at the church ok! and its not as ron weasly said in deathly hollow's to Neville longbottom "it hasn't exactly been a picnic mate."

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Get mad all you want kid but you're only 18. Many wait until well into their late 20's or early 30's to find the one they want. Not much you'll be able to do about it. Reality isn't fun but that's where you are at. Those things are getting so much harder to find in a girl now with the lifestyle americans have. I wish you luck and I'm not saying it's impossible, but just relax and start worrying about getting that job. Focus on you and she will come along somewhere in there. Plus, what decent girl wants a guy with no job? Good luck kid.

    Source(s): I'm in Cali and there's still no jobs bud so yeah I feel ya. But like I said, you're only 18. Please trust me when I say she's out there. The girls I loved when I was younger (the "love" list isn't long but the time we were together is) are not the girls I belong with now. You're most likely still figuring out who you are. They don't always "come to you" as you're sick of hearing, but it's going to happen. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO STRESS THIS MUCH LOL!!! I wish I had listened to those that told me that when I was your age and I would have saved a lot of wasted time. Best of luck
  • 1 decade ago

    I live in the Niles, MI area, there's not a lot of places to meet teens who are probably virgins. I don't think most 17-20 year old girls are anymore. But I will tell you this: I am 27 and I waited until marriage even though in yes 2000 when I graduated high like almost no one was a virgin I still was...The only place you're really going to find someone like that is by seeking them out through like a church. A girl who is religious should be 'saving herself' and still a virgin. So check at school to see if they have a like an FCA or other christian group, you should be able to find a 'nice' girl there. Good luck and I'm proud of you for looking for a girl who hasn't been with like a million other guys! Oh and I wasn't a geek or anything I went to college on a cheerleading scholarship, so there are athletic girls who are virgins still!

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    6 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Just wait til you get to college. You'll meet thousands of girls and many will be a good match for you. If you're worried about money, you might be surprised how much help you can get with financial aide or scholarships. If college isn't right for you, then go to a trade school or somewhere. You will be surprised how many girls you will meet just living your life outside of high school.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Sorry dude, there's noone waving with the magic stick to get you your beautiful girl. I'm 17 and I have the same 'problem'. I guess that's what you get when you have values. A lot of girls think guys are just in it to get into their pants and I know a lot of girls who act like sluts and serve themselves on a plate as if they were a piece of meat. They're fine for a one night thing but I wouldn't want to have them as a gf. I don't need my gal to be a virgin, but I don't want her to be the one who's been with every guy. Just be patient man. And don't act desperate.

  • 6 years ago

    Yeah, I hear ya there Raven494, I've learned lot since i've posted this. I'm still single but i'm WAYYYY Over my head in Bills rather than bringing in the Income. BUT....I amdoing my best on both Income AND Relationship accounts. Anagirl I'm glad you agree and thank you for your chip in the money pool if you will lol. Everyone else thanks for your support. I'm really glad I've recieved your answers

  • 1 decade ago

    its amazing that theres someone else out there who is looking for those qualities!(:

    except that im 14, i live in arizona, and i'm not looking for a guy right now.

    i think that i should wait until later to date.

    i dont put myself in those kinds of situations.

    anyways, good luck.

    all i gotta say is its gonna be really hard to find that kind of girl.

    you should look in a church, because theres alotta girls there with good values and that are saving themselves, like me.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ok honestly, this might sound like so cliché and stupid, but go to church, get close to God and He will bring you the right girl and girls like me that believe in God live the kind of life that you are looking for in a girl. I would go to a Christian/non denominational church, I’m serious. Go to church and trust God, He made you for goodness sakes He knows who is right for you.

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    5 years ago

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    The thing is, most girls don't give themselves enough credit, and think the worst of themselves. Most of the girls I know have horrible self esteem. Guys aren't usually as critically (well, maybe the jerks, but not most of them) and we usually see how you actually look. My best friend thinks she is the ugliest fattest disgusting monster in the world. I think the is the most beautiful thing I have ever laid my eyes on, sometimes I just stare at her face and lose myself. Every time she gets down on herself it just kills me inside, because she doesn't see who she truly is. My advice, every morning, look in the mirror, point at yourself and say "Damn I'm sexy!". It'll boost your self confidence, and make you much happier with yourself. Walk proud, with your head held up high.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    i think us guys are definately less critical than you gals are on yourself. i don't know if i go so far as to blame society like everyone says, but girls seem to definately have self esteem issues sometimes and most time it's for no reason (from a guys perspective)

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