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nothing can stop unruly kid?

I live with my mom, and 14 year old sister. We live in southern Ohio and its not the best place to live. My sister is enrolled into home schooling so she can smoke cigarettes, and listen to music during the day. She refuses to actually go to a public school. after school she goes off with her 17 year old boyfriend and stays out as late as she can. She asked my mom for a pregnancy test the other day. She doesn't listen to anything my mom tells her, she just whines until my mom breaks down and says okay do whatever you want. She wants to move into her friends house this summer so she doesn't have to deal with me or my mom. My mom doesn't seem like she's going to fight it. She does whatever she wants, drugs, sex, she goes around spray painting and breaking into places. I've talked to my mom about sending her to boot camp like places to learn respect. What could we do with her? How could we get her to straighten up?

Update:

She has threatened both my mom and myself different times before, which really scared us.

Update 2:

My mom is thinking about taking her to a mental health hospital. If I tell her how she is, or what to do she attacks me. She scares me.

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    boot camp cost a lot of money. have her sent to a mental hospital for evaluation and tell them she is a harm to herself and others. see what happens

  • Truth
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    If your mother is willing, the three of you need to sit down and make it clear to her that if she does A B or C she will no longer be allowed to live at home. Only do that if you are willing to follow through. She is taking advantage of your mother's sympathy. If she can do it better without the two of you, she needs to be allowed. If not, she needs to see what reality is.

    If you don't want to put her out on the street there are various schools and programs. I work at a school for kids like that. Here is our website: ww.miraclemeadows.com. I have seen more sucess here than at other programs I have worked in.

  • 1 decade ago

    She needs to be evaluated and put on medication. And if she is pregnant, she needs to sit down and watch sixteen and pregnant. Chances are she doesnt realize how much having a baby this young will affect her. Im not saying that she needs to put the baby up for adoption if she is pregnant. Im saying that if she doesnt get her life toghether before the baby is born then shes just hurting herself and her unborn baby.

    Chances are shes acting out because of something that happened when she was younger. By the sounds of it, your dad wasnt/isnt around. Shes trying to make up for it. Its shitty that it puts everyone who cares about her in a wierd position but its the way her brain hurts.

    Try sitting her down and talking to her first. Then if that doesnt work, take her to the psychologist, then see what they say.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Awwh I am so sorry, your sister really needs to stop and legally she has to be in school and is she even doing work? I think you should not send her to boot camp thats a little to rough you should use that as a last resort first maybe she should talk to a professional there are schools for kids on drugs to rehabilitate you should maybe act like your own side and try to get her on a good path

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  • ???
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    In a few months your sister will legally be an adult and responsible for herself. Let go of your anger and try to appreciate who she is. Encourage your mom to do the same. Boot camps do not teach respect. Valuing someone despite their flaws does.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Call the cops and report the spray painting and the breaking and entering. Whenever the boyfriend turns 18 call the cops and report it.

  • 5 years ago

    You must no longer manage this by means of strolling away. Tell your sister that if she doesnt work out a technique to manage her son whilst he's over your condominium then she cant take him over your condominium. Tell her that y ou don't seem to be seeking to be imply however you cant have him breaking stuff and seeking to train your little one unhealthy stuff given that thats no longer reasonable so that you can need to deak along with your little one given that he little one isn't being disciplined adequately. There are different methods of handling adhd with out meds. I even noticed this one exhibit of a little one who took meds for adhd and she or he used to be greater whilst she used to be no longer on them. Your sister demands to determine methods to is helping her son whilst he will get on the ones rampages. Tell your sister that you're no longer seeking to be imply or something however that you simply cant have him breaking stuff to your condominium. Be sympathetic approximately her problem intent its rough having a little one with adhd. If you dont wanna inform her this then possibly you must move to her condominium as a substitute so if he does do something its at her condominium and no longer yours. Im sorry. This is an overly rough problem and I desire this is helping.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    your sister is 14 and smokes... and does all those other things.. and needs a preggo-eggo test?

    ... tell your mom she needs to whoop-her ***... tahts the bottom line... just give her a good ol' asshooping; lock her a-double in her bedroom... there is NO reason taht a 14year old needs to be actingl like that

    -Em

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