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Wife learned Husband cheating & found out lots of his friends were too. Should Wife show the friend's Wive's?
The wife has evidence of various men in the government cheating on their wives. The wife doesnt know the wives names, but could try to locate them through the husbands work. What should she do? Shes worried about these other women's physical and mental health. The wife is seeking a divorce, but it hasnt gone through, what should she do?
@ Sheniqua - so if someone you knew had evidence of your husband...not boyfriend..cheating on you (and perhaps a child or two), you wouldnt want them to tell you bcuz its none of their business? interesting perspective.
@ Richard - perhaps a little research will help you out. Its not always about sex when men cheat. A lot of time..its like a dog licking its balls - bcuz they can. A man can have the perfect Wife in every way, but will still seek another or others. Its not the wife that drives him to be an idiot. The solution for those men out there that are thinking about catching some fish - get a divorce and you can have all the fish you want without the emotional torture of another human being, or the financial obligations.
@ Mr Warrior - Do you feel she should tackle the other's issues once her own are resolved?
@ Fred - never dip your pen in company ink...i always thought that meant not to screw around at work..but idk. So either way, if it were the woman you married doing this, and your someone knew about it...you dont want to hear from them? Perhaps you would if you became diagnosed with some uncurable disease thanks to your wandering sex partner that you were unaware of. -good luck to you-
@ All - Its not politicians, but may as well be military. These are FBI agents. She is worried about "guido" coming to the door, but it seems like she wont be happy until she has at least told these women, but shes a little afraid even tho the evidence is undeniable. They sleep with prostitues in asian countries that have high rates of hiv and aids
15 Answers
- ArtisteLv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
Let the other wives know anonymously!
They should be informed about their scumbag husbands!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Lots of men that work 4 the government cheat - nothing new there. If your guy is or was military you should suspect he's cheating or has cheated while deployed. I honestly don't know if you should tell b/c some ppl may thank you while others may turn on you and end u p hating you. Most of them probably already suspect it but are in denial
Source(s): I've seen it and have been hit on by senior enlisted while active duty and think it's disgusting. - 1 decade ago
well yes of course she the wife should do that. I know what that feels like but in a different situation. I am muslim female who is american. My husband has a second wife which he lied about. He wasn't honest. My husband is from pakistan but lives in south Korea. He has kids from his second wife. actually 4 kids now. his second wife just gave birth like I did last year with my daughter from him. This kind of situation would be normal in islamic counties like saudi arabia egypt pakistan and other just like this. It is against usa law for bigamy and for polygamy. I am really surprised nothing hasn't happened with the wives and mistresses of the men involved. Something usuually does happen. It is best to know right away. I didn;t know about my husband infidelity and more wives and girlfriends and kids. I am happy I got out right away before it gets into a really bad mess. One thing that I am appreciative of is my daughter from my husband. i didn't know anything of my husband's infidelity untill I had proof of it which was easy to get. The wives and girlfriends do need to know because it is their lives at stake. U never know if a person has an std. that potentially can become a real mess. I would take care of the situation right away before this gets any worse. Also have the wife stay strong and not to go back to husbands that includes the mistresses. She should notify everbody that is involved and get help. don't feel guilty of what has happened. there is nothing that she could do to stop it from happenening. It is not her fault. It is the choices the men have made who is at fault. They the men are responsible for their behaviors like women are. Please don't blame the women involved because it is the guy's fault. Notify and get all information out right away to the women not to the men. Be honest with the women involved. also give all the information to her attorney and the court system involved. they will help her. Just be careful on how u disclose and look for the information. I don;t want any laws broekn here in usa. In time everybpody for the women will eventaully meet anpther person that loves them and wouldn't ever do that to them. This has turned out like that in my situation. I met a new guy that won't do those kinds of things. I am going to marry him government wise and islamically in both our countries. I am marrying a non american guy. This proves about american men that I don't like them too much for no life partner and husband of mine. Too much heartbreak in my opinion and from my experience. I like the foreign men way too much. Be strong u will get through this and take care of yourself. One of the most important is do those two things. I hope this helps. I wish u luck in the future.
Source(s): my experience and my newborn daughter - 1 decade ago
I would want to know if my wife was cheating, but if it came from some random stranger I'd be leary of the situation....if they're politicians most of the wives probably know... me and my wife know alot of politicians and the wives know alot more than they let on.. trust me
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
Definitely show the other wives. Cheating isn't right, I hope many of them consider divorce also.
- tjdepere2003Lv 61 decade ago
if she contacts the others hope she prays Guido does not come knocking on her door or her children's door'
Stay out and very far away from the situation
- Mr WarriorLv 71 decade ago
Why does she want to take on other peoples problems, when she has so many problems of her own.
It will cloud her own problems. All the negativity surrounding other peoples problems will in effect come on her.
She should just worry about her own issues.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
The wife and wife's and wives and whomever else should note:
Men Are More Likely To Cheat If they Aren't Gettin Any At Home.
If they need this in all capital letters, instead of just caps on each first letter, let me know and I can re-write it.
- K DLv 61 decade ago
Leak it to any journalist. They will do the rest. If she tells the wives, the men will deny it and sadly the wives will believe them.
- 1 decade ago
I would. I would air all of their dirty laundry. If they didnt want to get caught they shouldnt have done it. That was a risk they were willing to take apparently. Scumbags!