Why do lesbians always end up falling in love with straight femine girls?

cause you get the femine and the butch, your femine and is she sorta butch by any chance?

im bi am not butch but fancie femine girls, and it cause if i fancied a butch girl why shouldn't i just go with a guy, so ye attraction is a strange thing i sometimes dont get it either.

no offence to butch lesbians, im also abit confused about it all. x

I don't like the whole falling for straight people thing, I think it's stupid. You see not a large majority of lesbians are more masculine, as with femme gay guys, so at first we can't always tell, unless we are all gathering were there is only lesbians. I fore one if I know a girl is straight I drop it.

This lesbian has never fallen for a straight woman, and I am not attracted to the feminine variety of woman either.

You seem to be under the misguided assumption that all lesbians are butch, but this is not so (although I am, but I'm only one lesbian out of millions). It's a myth that we are all masculine, and many of us are ultra-feminine, even more so than the average straight woman.

Methinks your ego is almost as big as your head.

Added: Is that you giving all these answers a negative rating, dear? Gosh I hope not, that would be awfully mean.

It's not about being unattainable like some people said, except for those people with self-esteem issues or who don't want to be able to have a real relationship out of fear of getting hurt. The majority of lesbians like feminine women, and those feminine women don't have to be straight. It's just that the average woman we interact with who is feminine is also straight because the average female is straight. Non-feminine lesbians stick out like a sore thumb, and feminine lesbians are hard to recognize and often aren't even out/are outnumbered by less feminine lesbians in many communities. So the likelihood of falling for a straight female is high if you're a lesbian who likes feminine women.

It's not "opposites attract," either, because a lot of feminine lesbians like other feminine women/lesbians. But a lot of us feel like this is just part of being a lesbian, i.e. women who are attracted to what is feminine not what is masculine. I don't like anything physically that reminds me of men because I just don't like men like that.

Edit: for the record, I've only fallen for one straight woman, and most of my friends are straight females. So not "always."

People are attracted to others not just because of their sexuality but because of their certain gender, looks, personality etc. Just because people are gay it doesn't mean they can only be attracted to other gay people, it doesn't usually work that way. I'm lesbian and i've fallen for a straight girl but that's because i am attracted to females, whatever their sexuality may be and i've typically fallen for a straight girl.

Its not always however many people fall for unobtainable or unintereseted people, at times opposites attract but not always, for example, a common hetrosexual male fantasy is to convert a lesbian, also a lot of people tend to subconciously search for unrequinted love.

Well im a femme lesbian, and i fall for femme girls. Not all lesbians are butch, most look no different from you, be careful with stereotyping people.

You cannot help who you fall in love with by the way- it just happens. Same as you falling for a boy that may never be interested.

The straight girl may feel that way. Meg That and she'd be real happy and satisfied. Neen

Did you point out that you are straight? Do you kiss other girls as greeting (cheek-kiss counts) or hug them? You might just be sending out the wrong signals.

I'd also like to point out that I have never heard that loving pink is a sign of being straight/gay - at least not for a girl.

One is not the same as all.

And maybe you are just imagining it all.

Or secretly hopeful? You seem to spend a lot of time in the LGBT section for someone so determined that they are straight.

Anyway, how old are you? 12? 13?

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