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Girls help me please!!! Im 14!?

okay so im 14 years old and I have constant thoughts of getting pregnant and having a baby. I would never acctually HAVE a baby or even have sex for that much (at this age) . I just have alot of thoughts about it. I know how a baby would like ruin my life and all I just like thinking about it. Im still a virgin and its gonna stay that way 'till Im married.

So anyway is it normal to have thoughts like this at 14 or am I just weird?

**Note** Im not going to have sex or get pregnant any time soon. I just think about what it would be like!! Nothing else!!

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  • 1 decade ago
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    thats completely normal, for me at least.

    i basically have all my future kids names picked out, even though i dont know what im going to have.

    dont stress about it, its fine.

    hope i helped (:

  • 1 decade ago

    Of course its normal..Its a part of being a teenager and having hormones..But just keep that thought in your mind to not have sex before marriage.Some people may not believe it makes a big deal to wait or not wait..But if its what you want to do and you strongly believe in it then keep that mind set. Don't let any boy try to talk you out of it. If they cant wait there not worth your time. Take it from me a young mother of 2. Its hard. Your not missing out on anything that can't wait until you're older or married.Find a hobby to keep you away from temptation if it bothers you that much.

    Source(s): Experience..
  • 1 decade ago

    Don't stress, honey. There's nothing wrong with you at all. Don't think those thoughts running through your head are weird, either. Curiosity is very much out of our hands and tend to wander, and, especially your age, that's very likely to occur.

    I went through the same phase, and I'm pretty sure we aren't alone. :)

  • peebo
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    1 decade ago

    I think all girls do this. Wanting to become a mommy someday is normal most girls have picked out names thought about what they want to have and how many. It is good that you want to wait for the right time. But yeah all of girls do it. Just like playing with babydolls we are pretending to be mommy and wanting to be and naming it and feeding it and all that stuff lol.

    Nothing wrong with you at all.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It's normal girl!

    everyone has thoughts about

    What if one day i do this or i do that

    ....thinking of being pregnant is something

    that's basically always going to be in your head up

    until you are pregnant ...trust a girl

    always thinks about her virginity and pregnancy

    no matter how young you truly are

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yeah i have the same thoughts too

    i also have my future wedding done out too and already picked out my husband he doesnt know yet though hahahaha

    in reference to Georgie Boys answer

    what type of angle ar u obtuse acute

    shes acute as in a-CUTE

    hahahahahahah lol:)

  • 1 decade ago

    of course! in fact, at summer camp two years ago, almost every girl in my cabin ad some sort of dream about pregnancy, and that was during a span of 10 days! its just your hormones being stupid. they tend to do that a lot.

  • 1 decade ago

    TOTALLY natural! Chill, chill, chill. Every girl does stuff like that around ur age. Yep, perfectly fine, girlie.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Same thoughts run through my head. I blame TV:)~Jess

  • 1 decade ago

    because your age is like that

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