Spiritually speaking...How do I turn around a day that is off to a rough start?

If you got the VNs because you feel you spoke your own truth, then take them as a compliment. You must look for the positive in every negative. You allowed these violations to become the center of your focus this morning, hence not being mindful of the cup of scalding hot coffee you were holding. Think of the rain as what will bring you beautiful flowers next month. The positive that comes out of every negative can be a beautiful thing. Something wonderful and beautiful will happen to you today. I hope by just reading that turns your day around, because, something great WILL happen for you. Peace to you.

Appeal the notices. Even if you KNOW you were wrong, put together the absolute BEST argument you can.

You'll probably still lose, but it seems to help me. I appeal every VN I get, especially the ones I deserve. I've won maybe 3 out of...well, a fair amount. Most, I lose. But I always feel a little better imagining some poor schlub reading my elaborate argument as to why I was not in violation (yeah, I know the schlub is probably a machine..but whatev).

Tell people about your day and have a laugh about it with them. It may seem like a horrible day, but really, the lack of luck you seem to be having today should just be chuckled at. You can't change what has happened, all you can do is laugh about it with a close friend. Laughing will brighten up your mood a bit and when you're cheerful, good things come your way. :)

What I do when I start feeling like I'm having a negative day is to start watching what and how I say things. When you notice that it's laced with negative verbiage you need to say it differently, make it positive. The same thing with your thoughts. I've been working on this myself and I have noticed a difference. You have to be careful though because when something happens that isn't positive your mind will start with the negative thinking again. Come up with a positive mantra to say, even if it's in your mind, when you feel this negativity. Negative thoughts does bring negativity to you.

Start off by reinterpreting the violation notice that you didn't "deserve". It means that you got under their skin. You win.

I got an account suspended a little while ago after saying that saints are above god! Someone's a bit sensitive today!

I fight every VN I get now, 90% of the time, I win. If the day is that bad, go back to bed. There's always tomorrow.

I hardly consider a VN to be bad enough to effect my psyche. As for the other things, get an umbrella and suck it up. Bad days happen.

Yeah, I killed a canines as properly. i substitute into breaking some branches with an iron rod interior the forrest so i ought to clean the way for a motorbike ramp. this great Husky charged at me with its mouth open jumped, going for my throat. I took the rod (don't be conscious of what i might have stored faraway from it) and, in mid air, smashed the canines as hard as i ought to. the great blow led to strategies trauma that could bring about the canines's loss of existence -- it substitute into knocked subconscious. I took it to my around the corner neighbor who's a vet, however the blow substitute into extensive; its cranium had caved in. It died merely as I have been given to his living house. The canines had a background of being aggressive -- even whilst unprovoked. i think of i substitute into development my ramp the place it went to take a seat down back (it substitute into being territorial). although, i substitute into thoroughly blind to that, if it particularly is authentic. After the adrenaline rush diminished, I felt adverse. The canines's proprietor substitute into noticeably offended (who yelled at me), and threatened to sue yet many different persons got here forward and complained correct to the aggressive nature of the canines and the owner backed down. I felt adverse definite, even though it gave me a daunting glimpse into guy's soul and what's particularly there, animalistic proclivities. You substitute right into a gadget once you existence is in threat; I used capability i did no longer additionally be conscious of I had. The vet substitute into surprised on the sheer devastation and informed me the capability I employed might must be many cases greater advantageous than i presumed it substitute into. i'm a math guy, and that i exploit my strategies to clean up very complicated mathematical problems...it substitute into so strange to be conscious of that below my ability to do complicated, psychological math (sorry if I sound braggartly) is merely an animalistic cave guy. That, even greater advantageous than the soreness I felt for extinguishing a existence, albeit of a canines, substitute into what scared me maximum. i wouldn't in any respect doubted evolution, yet until eventually then i might in basic terms settle for it on an psychological point, that episode gave me own, emotional (granted anecdotal) info. we are only primates and as lots animals as canines are, of that i'm now specific. i'm no longer religious, even though it did effect me very much.