My husband and I had a quiet dinner out ruined.?

As much as I think this woman was rude, you've got to remember she was greiving too, and had no idea of your situation. I would have asked the waitress to request that this woman keep her voice down, and I would have moved to another table. This was just very poor luck, and I'm sorry it ruined your evening.

I think everything happens for a reason and maybe in some strange way this is just a little sign letting your husband know that he is not alone in his loss.

Also keep in mind this is a public place, people can talk about whatever they want.

My husband and I both lost our fathers when we were in our 20’s very abruptly. Loved ones die everyday, it is selfish of us to expect them to live forever - they are now at peace.

You and your husband were dining in a PUBLIC restaurant with OTHER PEOPLE ..... what I find odd is that YOU BOTH WERE LISTENING IN ON HER CONVERSATION !!! ... I"m sure if you both decided to engage in your own conversation the evening would have been fine. Instead you feel you are the center of the world, and the restaurant and you think everyone else must comply to you... WRONG!

Stop feeling high and mighty... if you want to listen to others conversations and choose to be offended by it then blame yourself. She was having a private conversation with her friends, NOT YOU... SHAME on you for snooping in on them.

Get over yourselves! Seriously.

Since when does every person in the world need to change themselves so as to not offend you? You both wanted to be offended... too bad, this is the real world honey... we've all got other things going on than worrying about you and your husbands problems. Get used to it. The world is not going to change around you.

I have had this happen to me a few times people talking loud, and what i have done is to ask the waitress to fine me another table far from the loud talking. You should have moved from the table quickly and ask for another area to sit.

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Well, that is not true. I actually want to hear about what happened. This cancer thing, appears to just come in and taken EVERYONE by storm.

Wake up honey, this is life and I mean you could have told her you don't want her to say anything but who are you, I mean how EN DAM TITLED are you to tell someone to shut up.

I am sorry about your husband but you could have asked for another table.

The goose & the gander BOTH have a right.

i would've gotten up and told her she was being disruptive. its ok to talk about her passing, but not in a public place where it ruins another persons meal. it's rude is what it is and i would've gone to ask her to stop or ask a waiter or the manager to fix the problem.