I have a big problem with my husbands ex wife and her kids?

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When you marry the man you marry the family that comes with him. This family includes his ex wife, his kids and his family members too. The whole "package deal" I know no one told you of this. I learned the hard way too. So decide now what you want. The rest of your life this way it is.....or divorced and move on to a man who doesn't have such a drama filled life.

It's not easy. I know. But these are very young kids and his kids came into his life before you did. The kids aren't going anywhere. For that matter neither is the ex wife. All he can do with her is lessen his talking with her through the years. Good luck :)

He's right, a real man will never put some woman before his kids. What if you were in his position and your husband told you your kids need to go back? You would think that it's wrong. I hope he divorces you and finds a real woman.

I do agree that he should stop paying her so much when they are living with you most of the time...

But you can't ask him not to keep his kids at your house...you knew going into this relationship there would be children involved, so you should have thought of that before you got married.

You can't expect him to choose you over his children and shame on you if you put him in that position.

Sorry to say, but lifestyles change when kids are in the picture. Enjoy the time you have or you'll drive him away because it's unlikely he'll give up his kids...and that's something to admire, not scoff at...

Sounds like you love his money! Why else would you enter into a marriage to a man with children, when apparently you don't even like kids. Suck it up if you want to "keep your lifestyle" and keep your mouth shut gold digger.

Your husband had every right to get upset with you, They are his kids,, face it ,,, they are forever in his life. And if you are only worried about getting a divorce because you like living the life style that you do,, you deserve to be treated the way he is treating you

Try your best to get along with the kids and see how the situation goes. It's going to be rough until he sees what he is doing. Do not tell him they need to go back, but instead you can try asking if they miss their mom, or want to see her. Be more subtle. He's being played and just can not see that. Be patient with him, but do not let this ruin your relationship. You just need to get closer to the kids and they may end up wanting to live with you and then you won't have to pay. Try to love them like your own since obviously their mother can't even do that.

you have the right to be annoyed, with the ex but the children are just children. if he doesn't let the courts know how much time they are with you guys and how much extra money he gives her then i would be pissed because he could fight for custody or at least keep receipts to show them that he is giving her all that money and they are in your care. you do need to show him that you care about his kids because if you care at all for him you should love his children too

His issues with his ex..the mother of his children are between them..they need to communicate together on all parenting issues..you two should consider counseling on being a blended family and work out expectations to maintain a healthy relationships between you and him and his children.

Sounds like you did not do much thinking before marrying someone with kids