Culturally Speaking: Should this be my first and last POLL?

1) There's more than one meal a day?

2) Cool

3) Whichever I grab first

4) Ranch

5) Absolutely not. That could drive a person crazy.

6) I like my first name. Chicks love the D. Don't you like the D.?

7) Ha ha...."Papi ain't no snitch." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SkPTkmT6Kds

8) I prefer to view it as a mutual agreement that just happened to be initiated by....

9) No, not really. I don't think many people do.

11) When to back off/ shut up/ give us room. It's not intended to be mean, but men require independence, peace and solitude sometimes. (But the love is always there)

13) Notice? Maybe...but I generally don't sweat the small things. (but there IS a limit...lol)

15) Is it the same thing?

17) Because women don't know what the hell they want. They say they want complete honesty, but, as you point out, they really don't. Make up your damn minds....lol

1) What’s your favorite meal of the day?

Dinner

2) What kind of mood are you in?

I'm cool

3) Which shoe do you put on first, the right or left?

left

4) What is your salad dressing of choice?

french

5) Would you want to know the day you were going to die?

No.

6) If you could change your first name, what would you change it to?

Idris

7) When and why’s the last time you had a run-in with the cops?

When they pulled me over for Driving While Black about a month ago

8) Are you usually the dumper or the dumpee?

I avoid the whole dumping scene

9) Before having sex, do you ever think that there’s a chance this person might become the mother/father of your child? (Things happen)

Every time

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10) Women: What’s the most important thing men don’t understand about women that they probably should?

11) Men: What’s the most important thing women don’t understand about men that they probably should?

We only think about one thing at a time. We get to everything but one thing at a time. Oh and don't ever move our stuff. We expect it to be where we put it and when it's not, we get pissed.

12) Women: How important are compliments from your guy, or the guy you fancy?

13) Men: Do you notice when a woman has a little flab or a little cellulite here and there?

Usually not before you do

14) Women: When a guy is being insensitive towards the fact that you’re feeling a little emotional… Does that bother you? (Ex. You’re crying and he says you need to grow up or you’re being dramatic)

15) Men: Since most of you go to strip clubs with your friends even when you are in relationship, would you have a problem with your girl going to a male strip club with her friends?

Whoa! Hold up sis. That is one hell of an assumption. Maybe most of the guys you know go see those funky bytches but I don't get down like that and neither does my brother or our (most) of our friends. The way I see it is why look if I can't (won't) get down? I don't want them funky bytches grinding on me. I don't know where they been. But for whatever it's worth, I don't have a problem if you want to go. I am not threatened by whats in there. If you want me you'll come back home. If you don't, well the sooner we figure that out the better.

16) Women: If your guy wanted to go on vacation with a group of friends to Brazil... Would you be OK with that?

17) Men: When women ask if something makes us look fat, why is it so hard to remember the answer is always, “No, you look great baby!” then exit quickly?

Because it's too much fun to say "Don't blame that shyt on the dress and act like chili cheese fries had nothing to do with it!" LOL

1) What’s your favorite meal of the day? WHENEVER I'M EATING IS MY FAV MEAL

2) What kind of mood are you in? SLEEPY

3) Which shoe do you put on first, the right or left? WHICHEVER SHOE IS CLOSER

4) What is your salad dressing of choice? ALWAYS RANCH

5) Would you want to know the day you were going to die? NOT REALLY

6) If you could change your first name, what would you change it to? SOME AFRICAN NAME OF MY ANCESTORS' TRIBE IF THEY WERE NEVER FORCED TO AMERICA

7) When and why’s the last time you had a run-in with the cops? THE LAST TIME I GOT PULLED OVER FOR CUTTING AN OFFICER OFF; I TOLD HIM I HAD MY BLINKER ON AND HE SHOULD HAVE SLOWED DOWN; I STILL WONDER WHY HE DIDN'T GIVE ME A TICKET FOR BEING A SMARTASS

8) Are you usually the dumper or the dumpee? NEITHER; I DON'T WASTE TIME WITH RELATIONSHIPS

9) Before having sex, do you ever think that there’s a chance this person might become the mother/father of your child? (Things happen) I DO BUT I ALWAYS HAVE HOPE THAT I'M INDEED INFERTILE

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10) Women: What’s the most important thing men don’t understand about women that they probably should? DON'T EXPECT ME TO OBEY YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE A MAN

12) Women: How important are compliments from your guy, or the guy you fancy? THEY'RE IMPORTANT BUT MY OWN COMPLIMENTS TO MYSELF MEAN MORE THAN HIS

14) Women: When a guy is being insensitive towards the fact that you’re feeling a little emotional… Does that bother you? (Ex. You’re crying and he says you need to grow up or you’re being dramatic) IT SURE DOES; I ALWAYS LEAVE MEN ALONE THAT ARE INSENSITIVE AS I'M FAR FROM DRAMATIC SO IF I'M CRYING, IT'S SERIOUS

16) Women: If your guy wanted to go on vacation with a group of friends to Brazil... Would you be OK with that? SURE; I'D BE GOING ON A 7 DAY CRUISE MYSELF

YOUR POLL IS GREAT! JUST A TAD LONG.

1) What’s your favorite meal of the day? ice cream (not a meal, but I can eat chocolate almond all day everyday!)

2) What kind of mood are you in? I'm cool, got a toothache though.

3) Which shoe do you put on first, the right or left? I never really paid attention.

4) What is your salad dressing of choice? blue cheese or Caesar

5) Would you want to know the day you were going to die? No

6) If you could change your first name, what would you change it to? something ethnic or exotic

7) When and why’s the last time you had a run-in with the cops? March 18, got pulled over 4 speeding.

8) Are you usually the dumper or the dumpee? dumper

9) Before having sex, do you ever think that there’s a chance this person might become the mother/father of your child? (Things happen) No

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10) Women: What’s the most important thing men don’t understand about women that they probably should? We think too much, we analyze everything, at least I do

12) Women: How important are compliments from your guy, or the guy you fancy? not very

14) Women: When a guy is being insensitive towards the fact that you’re feeling a little emotional… Does that bother you? (Ex. You’re crying and he says you need to grow up or you’re being dramatic) Pisses me off, especially if I know I'm being too sensitive or dramatic, I don't need to be called out on the fact!

16) Women: If your guy wanted to go on vacation with a group of friends to Brazil... Would you be OK with that? HECKS NO

1) What’s your favorite meal of the day?

Dinner. I'm usually at home at that point and I can just relax, bust jokes with my roommates and enjoy it.

2) What kind of mood are you in?

Right now? Agitated. I think my period's coming (TMI, I know lol)

3) Which shoe do you put on first, the right or left?

Right?

4) What is your salad dressing of choice?

Not a salad fan.

5) Would you want to know the day you were going to die?

Pray and be with family.<<<My bad. I thought you wrote, what do you want to DO on the day you die? lol

I wouldn't want to know.

6) If you could change your first name, what would you change it to?

Arianna or Noelle.

7) When and why’s the last time you had a run-in with the cops?

A couple months ago. I stabbed my brother-in-law.

8) Are you usually the dumper or the dumpee?

Dumper. I've only ever been dumped once.

9) Before having sex, do you ever think that there’s a chance this person might become the mother/father of your child? (Things happen)

Not before. That scary thought you usually comes after.

10) Women: What’s the most important thing men don’t understand about women that they probably should?

We can't get enough communication. I know it's not their strongest suit but it's crucual to us.

12) Women: How important are compliments from your guy, or the guy you fancy?

A couple here and there is nice but I can't stand it when it's all he says.

14) Women: When a guy is being insensitive towards the fact that you’re feeling a little emotional… Does that bother you? (Ex. You’re crying and he says you need to grow up or you’re being dramatic)

YES. It's dismissive and I don't like it.

16) Women: If your guy wanted to go on vacation with a group of friends to Brazil... Would you be OK with that?

Sure. I vacation all the time with my girls. He should too.

Mama, you spent some time on this one...lol

1) What’s your favorite meal of the day? - dinner. I take more time then, and sometimes go out- which I enjoy.

2) What kind of mood are you in? - a little frazzled. (come on to Q's about me- lol)

3) Which shoe do you put on first, the right or left?- I think the right.

4) What is your salad dressing of choice?- I make my own- olive oil, red wine vinegar and spices

5) Would you want to know the day you were going to die?- no

6) If you could change your first name, what would you change it to?-

7) When and why’s the last time you had a run-in with the cops?- I was pulled over Sat for a missing brake light. He just told me and drove off.

8) Are you usually the dumper or the dumpee?- I usually end it-

9) Before having sex, do you ever think that there’s a chance this person might become the mother/father of your child? (Things happen)

not really

10) Women: What’s the most important thing men don’t understand about women that they probably should?

- they should just know when they have a jewel in their face. that's all.

12) Women: How important are compliments from your guy, or the guy you fancy?- very

14) Women: When a guy is being insensitive towards the fact that you’re feeling a little emotional… Does that bother you? (Ex. You’re crying and he says you need to grow up or you’re being dramatic)

-yes. I dont make a habit of being an emotional wreck- so when I am- it's genuine.

16) Women: If your guy wanted to go on vacation with a group of friends to Brazil... Would you be OK with that?- yes. sure, I'd be jealous cause I want to come too- but, he needs his fun time alone.

1) What’s your favorite meal of the day? Dinner

2) What kind of mood are you in? so / so

3) Which shoe do you put on first, the right or left? Right

4) What is your salad dressing of choice? Italian or Ranch

5) Would you want to know the day you were going to die? No, it would stress me out

6) If you could change your first name, what would you change it to? I wouldnt ... this was my moms gift to me

7) When and why’s the last time you had a run-in with the cops? I got pulled over for NO REASON ... a month ago ... I was on the westside ... the racially profiled me, and wanted to know what a white girl was doing in "this area" I explained to them ... i have lived there for years ... and my mom lived up the street, and I asked them if they were really concerned or just being nosey.

8) Are you usually the dumper or the dumpee? Both idk

9) Before having sex, do you ever think that there’s a chance this person might become the mother/father of your child? (Things happen) Yes

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10) Women: What’s the most important thing men don’t understand about women that they probably should? Dont pretend you are listening .... actually LISTEN when we need to talk. We listen to all your BS ... damn

12) Women: How important are compliments from your guy, or the guy you fancy? I appreciate compliments

14) Women: When a guy is being insensitive towards the fact that you’re feeling a little emotional… Does that bother you? (Ex. You’re crying and he says you need to grow up or you’re being dramatic)

OMG I fukcin hate it, it's like .... Im the one with a womb and a cycle and all these fukctard emotions ... to bear your children, so SHUT UP and LISTEN.

16) Women: If your guy wanted to go on vacation with a group of friends to Brazil... Would you be OK with that? Sure ... Im not a hater.

1 well all i had was an omlet this morning.

2 irritated

3never thought about it, which ever one i see. i do most things both ways.

4Ranch

5yes, so i could put life insurance and give it to my son.

6i wouldn't change my name, it means attractive in muslim. now way.

7i have to go to court tomorrow for a driving while undersuspension so 2 months ago.

8Dumper, but iv been dumped. Probably depend on how attractive the girl looked.

9at my age i don't flop down with randoms.

11 we are simple. I couldn't tell you how many questions in singles and dating get asked about why are men so complicated. A good woman can read us like a book. we are pretty predictable.

13ABSOLUTELY. There is nothing more sexier than fit women. If you take care of your body it shows your care about your health and the way you look.

15no, not a hypocrite here. Dont ask dont tell.

17 Ha ha ha, i don't know ive dated some fat girls, wont do it again. All women ask that question but fat ones say it totally different. The question turns from "does this make me look fat" to a straight out "i know you think im fat" see the difference. A couple of those just makes you want to punch a girl in the face for her being insecure

1. Breakfast!

2. Irritable

3. Left

4. Low Fat Ranch

5. Yes!

6. Raven

7. About a yr ago, I just flash my badge and I'm on my way

8. always been the dumper, so far....

9. I only had sex with my deceased hubby & my new guy (he's fixed) so no. LOL

10. We all aren't the same. What your last woman liked, may not be what i like

12. muy importante!

14. I'll dump him. seriously!

16. Sure, I need the peace & quiet!

I liked this. A star 4 u!

1. does it annoy you when people call/text your phone, then ask who you are? Yes. I immediately turn into a b*itch if they try to pull that. 2. are you over protective of your ipod, because your embarrassed of a few songs on it? No. 3. what was your favorite disney movie growing up? Aladdin or Beauty and the Beast (tie). 4. do you listen to any music in a language you cant always understand? Yes, those Bollywood songs. lol 5. when you ask a question on here, do you thumbs up everyone who answered seriously, even if you dont always agree with what theyre saying? Always (except for one user). 6. do you like chic fila? idk what is... 7. do you let anyone drink out of the same cup as you? Not just anyone, family and friends, yes. 8. what do you usually get from a soda vending machine? Ginger ale. 9. do you ever wear a pair of ugly shoes, just because theyre comfortable? Not to go "out, out" with but around the neighbourhood, yes. 10. do you need shopping partners, or will you go alone if nobody else is available? I have gone alone before but I prefer company. BQ: Rainy.