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woud you drop a 12y/o at the airport alone?

My grand daughter 12 has been visiting her dad for 10 days returning home today. She called me this morning and was alone at the airport. Her dad dropped her off 3-4 hours early and told her he had to go to work. She went through security and check in alone. Luckily she had money we gave her before she left and went and got breakfast. She didn't call me until after because she was trying to calm down and didn't want me to know she was crying. Of course we both cried then. She's in Colorado and I'm in Florida.

Is this as stupid as I think it is? Her mom has been losing her mind and is waiting at the airport now.

Would you drop your child off and say see you in a few months? I can't believe he is that stupid but it seems he is.

Update:

After the age of 12 you are not considered a minor while flying. We have always paid to have someone with her up until this visit.

They said they don't offer this at her age. Her mom stayed with her until she boarded here, we assumed her dad would do the same.

Update 2:

My girl did great and she is very capable and handled things well. It was just the no warning, oh here you are, that threw her. Plus she wanted to stay ith her 4y/o baby sister until she eft. That was the reason for the tears. Its very hard for them to be so far apart.

I'm just shocked her dad was so insensitive and such a jerk.

Update 3:

sorry my L is sticking...It should have read until she LEFT.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    No .. not only is that careless, but kind of mean. I'd want to see my child off, and if I couldn't I would arrange a flight attendant or someone to keep an eye on her to make sure she got to the proper gates, and didn't miss her flight . Air ports can be confusing, even to someone like myself so you can imagine what it would be like to a 12 year old.

    Sounds like her dad needs a smack to the back of his head.

  • 1 decade ago

    What a terrible, mean and stupid thing to do to a 12 year old. I have been to the Denver airport many times and it is very confusing for me and I'm an adult. My 25 year old son got on the wrong train and drove back and forth for almost an hour before asking for help. If I was the mother I would insist that the father pay the additional money for an escort at the airport. He is very inconsiderate and I feel just horrible for your grand-daughter.

    I was under the impression that some airlines have escorts up to age 14.

  • 4 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would only if the child was comfortable with it, and had been through the process before. And I would probably go with them to the security clearance, at the very least. I certainly wouldn't drop them off several hours early and just leave them there.

  • kny390
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Airlines have a service that when you drop your child off, there is an attendant that takes charge of them and doesn't release them again until the proper parent/pick up person is identified. Suggest he use that service. A lot of things can happen from delayed flights, to flights that have to land in a different city and you have to change planes, etc.

  • 1 decade ago

    Honestly, I think it really depends on the kid. I teach 6th grade, and am around many 12 year olds. Some of them would be fine, some of them would freak out. Also it would depend on how much they have flown and how familiar they are with that particulary airport.

    However, in your situation, the dad should have asked the daughter how she felt, and been willing to take work off if needed. If she was hesitant at all, he should have been with her.

  • pdooma
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    I've flown internationally by myself at that age. Made it through customs and everything sans adult. She sounds like she's smart enough to handle it. It's not like she's 5 or something. If she knows the drill, how to read a ticket, how to get through security... I can just see it not being a huge deal.

    Not saying I would have done what he did, but I don't think it really harmed her either.

  • 1 decade ago

    No, I wouldn't have just dropped her off and left. I would have gotten a pass to go through security with her and stayed with her until she boarded the plane.

    Yes, that's pretty stupid, I agree with you.

  • 1 decade ago

    That is pretty srupid.

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