Bummed none of my freinds came to my party. Late 20's.?

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In my late 20's.  We had a party yesterday for me and no one came.  I feel like a let down kid in school.  I know I don't have alot of freinds but really none.  We invited about twenty people includes kids too.  I had one freind and my sister come.  Yea I made the best of it and was happy that's all that matters but I'm seriously very bummed abou 
t it.   I assumed a few people wouldn't make it but my freinds that I thought would come, that said they would...no one came.

Igor Terrible · Accepted Answer

Welcome to the real world. I know it's a bummer but you are inviting the wrong people, and in the wrong way. 
First you have to get a consensus with one or two friends- 'Hey, I'm thinking of having a party, are you busy that day?', get one or two people involved and get the snowball rolling that way. If you are inviting 'blind', people don't have any reference: i.e., who's going to be there, what sort of party, etc; and instead of saying 'no' to you, they will just not show up. You need to ask them, do you think you can make it? And don't be flaky, this is a special event and they are the priviledged ones to be invited. Don't invite 'en masse' just to get a percentage, that's lame.

And don't worry about others, most people are sheep!
Good luck next time.

anon · Answer

next year, just have a small event with the people you really care about. at late 20s, people are starting to settle down and so you need to start having a few best friends (and keep close with family) and put all your effort into them.

idk · Answer

Dam that sucks ***. I myself am planning a birthday dinner for myself and is worried that no one would show. I know that if they don't show I'm going to be very upset especially since they will

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Bummed none of my freinds came to my party. Late 20's.?

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