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If you made stupid mistakes?

If you made stupid mistakes 17 yrs ago and got a chance to apologize for those mistakes would you or would you let it go? I was very young and having a sexual relationship with a boy 2 yrs older and at that time thought it was COOL to tell my friends about it and they told other people and basically every1 knew. Well he moved before I got a chance to apologize but have recently found him on facebook. I have moved on as he did but am not sure DO I APOLOGIZE or let it be.

Update:

I would not do it publicy. its between me and him Im just not sure if I should let it go. I have regreted it all these yrs and wonder if it has bothered him I did that.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    I think an apology would be very nice. He may not be bothered by it anymore, but it won't hurt anything to apologise.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I wouldn't apologise publicly. It's just.. digging up the past, I'd start talking to him again, and if it comes around, lightly apologise for the way you were back then, but make it clear your a different person now :)

  • Jamie
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    i think that would show great respect, for you both

    i think that it would open many conversations. take responsibility even though he has moved on.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    id let it be.

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