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Bad choices.. Apologize or let it go?

17 yrs ago I was very young and having a sexual relationship with a boy 2 yrs older and thought it was COOL so I told my friends and they told more of their friends and so on. Well he moved before I ever got a chance to apologize and have recently found him on facebook. I dont know to apologize (not publicly) or just let it go. Like I said I/we were very young... but have felt bad all these years for that. Do I let it go or apoligize??

Update:

for telling my friends and everyone knowing. at the time I was immature and had no business having sex but I realize that is something that should havre been kept private

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I'm still not understanding what you did wrong. Did you want to apologize for having sex with him or for telling everyone?

    If it bugs you that much, yes apologize. You can't ever go wrong by apologizing, even if it is nearly 2 decades later.

  • 1 decade ago

    i say apologize. don't keep living with the guilt. and i doubt he would be that upset because of how long ago it was. yal will probably end up laughing about all of it. don't stress it.

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