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If you had a bf/gf, would you call someone else hot?
I absolutley hate it when people with a boyfriend or girlfriend say some one else is hot. Its like wtf?
Don't tell me to chill. I am calm. I just think its disrespectful to be committed to a person but then say someone else is hot.
Its just I know some girls who will say guys are hot like they totally forget about their bf?
B. Rabbit basically summed up my question.
15 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I know what you mean. I don't think people should be attracted to other people when they are in a relationship (not because it's "wrong" but because you shouldn't WANT to be attracted to any one else if you truly loved your significant other).
- Anonymous1 decade ago
It's okay to be attracted to other people when you're in a relationship. It's not cheating. It would be really inconsiderate for someone to start going off about how hot a person was right in front of their bf/gf, but if they're just talking in a group of their friends, it's fine. Chill.
- BrianLv 41 decade ago
No. Definitely not. It's okay if you're with your friends of the same gender and talking about a celeb or something I think, but anything said in front of the other person is just as you said, disrespectful.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
sure. i have a bf and tell my friends all the time if I think a guy is hot. Just don't do it in front of my bf. It's disrespectful.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Heck yeah!! You should be open and realistic to the fact that your partner will find other people attractive (just as you do). Wouldn't you want your partner to feel comfortable around you?! Now, going on and on about them is crossing that fine line. But by you accepting at least a comment and maybe even agreeing with them shows how confident you are...confidence=sexy!!!
- HawaiianBruddaLv 61 decade ago
well dont get me wrong it is wrong in a sense becuz u shud b only focusin on dat person n i believe in bein true to dat one person. however i also believe dat its jus words. its my honest opinion n if sum1 asks for it ill give em my honest opinion. its only words n its normal for guys ta tell a gurl dat shes hot or dat shes pretty n even look at other gurls wen their with sum1. but u gotta realize dat its normal for all us guys ta do dat n its not sumthin we can handle. i aint tryna b an ******* to u or ne gurl but i think its jus words n its not doin too much hard. itd b a totally different thing if i decided ta take action upon those words. "u can look at the menu but u cant order" keep dat in mind n think about it :-)
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
well i wouldn't exactly call someone else hot if i was in a relationship. I normally just say "Awwww, He's a cutie" lol. that's my way of saying someone has good looks, but i don't want to go out with them.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I used to think that it was a knock at me when girls would do that, like I wasn't good enough or something. but i guess its just be truthful. you can say another person is hot (cause you can be attracted to more than one person) but as long as he/she loves you, I guess its cool
- 1 decade ago
i c no problem with it. it they are hot, then they are hot. even if the hot person insists that they rnt, its still no reason to be upset.
hahah same boat, well somewhat, my friend t, always says im hot and hes got a gf
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