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What do guys think about dating a girl that isn't a virgin?
Alright, well, me & my boyfriend broke up recently after a year of dating. I loved him very much, but he didn't treat me the way I deserved (putting me down, making me feel worthless, breaking my things, ect.), so I broke it off with him. The thing is, I had ALL my firsts with him; he was my first love & like all first loves, I'm sure, you think you'll be together forever, unfortunately it didn't happen that way for me. Something I'm scared about now is the fact that I gave up so much for him, one of those things being my virginity, & I'm worried it might make some guys in the future want to back away from me :/ So, I was wondering how much virginity matters to a guy in a relationship? Is it a deal breaker?
Thanks for answers!
13 Answers
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Depends on the guy that sees you. Personally, it does not matter. There was a time when it did though. I was so into relationships and everything being "right". The whole virginity issue mattered because I felt that the girl would only think of her first no matter what I did.
In order for a mature guy to not care about that issue, you have to not have feelings for your ex. You need to convince the person you are with that everything you have is theirs only with no regards to the past. And the only way to do that is to genuinely feel it.
i am sure you can do all of that. So don't worry about what guys may think. Instead, worry about taking care of yourself so that you are good to go when a relationship comes along. That way, a guy can focus on you and not who you have slept with.
- 1 decade ago
Some guys do care, some don't. It is really an opinion kind of thing. It isn't much of a right answer because some guys will really care, while others won't mind at all. Thing is whatever happened, happened already, you can't change it and if the guy you find next really cares about you than he won't mind if you are a virgin or not. That what I think hope I helped =] Byee.
Ps
Sorry to Hear that story it was kind of sad =/
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Hey,
Guys are guys. They are all different, you know that. However, for most guys, I don't think that it will mean so much. Especially if you are around other guys who aren't virgins. I don't think it would be an issue as long as you were never pregnant (which you weren't, from what the text reads). Also, you don't HAVE to tell until they get JUST AS hooked into you. And if they do have an issue, they just aren't the guy, no matter how much you may "love" him, if he doesn't get you, and doesn't accept you, virgin or NOT, then that's his decision and his loss. Just wait patiently. Your prince will come someday! And he WILL accept you without your virginity.
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- deeLv 41 decade ago
So o o o are you going to advertise that your not a virgin anymore?? Do you have to go there when you start to date again. The conversation about the topic won't surface unless you bring it up. So i say just don't say or talk about it. We have all at one time had our first love and have lost our virginity. But what was learned from it shouldn't repeat itself. Savor what you can and move on.
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- ElloLv 41 decade ago
It's not the old days where most people were virgins before marriage. Unless you slept with tons of guys then a guy wouldn't care. But you only had one, and most guys aren't virgins either. Some are but most aren't.
- 1 decade ago
It doesn't matter to most guys, we understand that you have a life before us, just like girls know the opposite is true. Honestly, it won't really he a hindrance for you. Most guys freak out more if a girl IS a virgin, since that makes it too important and too many guys fear that.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You shouldn't allow yourself to be with a guy whom would make virginity a "deal breaker". BTW, there's no physical way to tell if a person (man or woman) is a virgin.
- RoseLv 41 decade ago
No to some guys because they really don't care unless they get in your pants but some guys would care would usually wait for marriage you know like those catholic and christians type of a guys.
- 1 decade ago
it depends on the guy, but I dont think it will matter much... there will be plenty of men that are prolly not virgens that will like you for who u r... its not the4 end of the world... things happen, and we understand that... i hope i helped
Source(s): can u give me the best answer please - Anonymous1 decade ago
She's more likely to put out more often so its a win win