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How do i get my little sister to stop going through my texts?
Ok , me and my friend were joking around and saying how i was going to have sex with him . as a 13 year old girl i get pressured to say some stuff. i never delete my texts so she went through them while i slept than told my mom and my mom told my dad and my dad cried . now you have to remember we were kidding and i was never going to do anything . so my mom talked to me and didnt believe me . I'm not really grounded but i still feel bad what should i do to get my mom and dad to trust me and to get my to stop going through my texts .
k ive gone through my little sisters texts and all she talks about is stuff little kids talk about and i never remember to delete texts
12 Answers
- SarahLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Never, never, never do anything where you feel pressured into doing it. Don't try to copy your friends you be the leader not the follower. Your parent were very light on you by not punishing you. You just don't joke about something as serious as having sex and don't be pressured into doing it. Just explain to your mom that you will not do anything like this again just because your friends might be joking around about doing it. As far as your sister goes, she should have been punished for reading something that was none of her business. Since you now know that she is a snoop, hide your phone so she can't find it. Put it inn your pillow case at night. But if she really wanted to find it she would snoops always seem to know where to find something.
I would ask your friend to delete that message from her phone so no one else will see it and believe it is true.
- 1 decade ago
Oh wow. That's tough. Just remember to delete your texts. Simple as that. Your parents, however, will probably track your texts now. There's not really anything you can do. Just wait a while.
By the way, you shouldn't be saying things like that when you're 13. I'm 16 and most girls my age really hate it when girls even joke about that stuff. We look back and think about how stupid we were at that age. Don't make yourself look like an idiot later in life to your friends.
- 1 decade ago
I'm going to offer a mature solution for you, sweetheart... at 13, you probably shouldn't be sending any sort of suggestive texts... so much bad can come from it... even just for now, if you show your parents that you truly listened to them and aren't hiding things from them (like deleting texts), then they will begin to trust you again and won't have the need to go through your phone... and, plus, your sister won't have anything to tell!!!
I know that's probably not what you wanted to hear but, trust me, it's your best bet... I've been there!
- 1 decade ago
Sleep with your phone under your pillow or hidden so she can't get to it, delete texts you don't want her to read, and stop joking around about having sex. Being pressured to say stuff now will lead to being pressured to do stuff later. Consider this practice for when you're facing even more intense pressure; if you can't even say no to dirty texting, what are you going to do when a guy actually tries to start something with you?
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- 1 decade ago
Explain to your mom and dad why you were joking about something like that and appolagize.
You should hang out around the house for a while and do something responsible to make them trust you again.
You should really delete your texts on your phone to get your sister to stop going through your texts.. but if you are unwilling to do that. Then hide your cell phone or put a security code on your inbox.
- 1 decade ago
my sister had/is going through the same exact thing, except it was only our parents that went through her texts i really could care less what my sister does lol
first, i would say that nothing you do will make them start trusting you all of the sudden, just be good and respect them and listen to what they say and they will start trusting you again
second, if you dont like people reading your texts just delete them or dont text anything that you wouldnt want anyone else to read
- Anonymous1 decade ago
maybe you shouldnt kid around having sex. your 13. why should you be even talking about it? your mother should of punish you for talking to a boy like that. boys your age think stuff quick. if your 'kidding' which i kinda doubt you arent. he will think your easy or a s**t. boys talk so it will get around. guys would even lie and say they did have sex with you just because you talk about it. honestly im 16, i know alot of girls like you that have a bad rep just because if sexting or not even sexting.
- 1 decade ago
If that was my sister and she had a phone where she could text, I would send her a text from a different number that will scare her into not looking into peoples text >:D I don't think the star 69 number works on text though =/
- ?Lv 45 years ago
... yeah nicely my acquaintances sister is kinda stressful using fact she follows me everywhere so I merely brush aside her... yet what you're handling sounds a sprint extra troubling. perhaps in case you point out which you have a clean lady chum, or something like that.... i think you should tell her you're gay? hahahaha XD merely kidding, yet i might attempt the previous one possibly that could paintings.
- ɥɐɹɐs '♥Lv 71 decade ago
This is why you shouldn't say stuff in print (online or otherwise) that you don't want to become known.
You could lock your phone with a password; some phones have that feature.