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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 1 decade ago

my mom wont let me go to the mall cuz i skipped band lesson how could i go 2 the mall with her permission?

my mom grounded me because i skipped lessons because i had a test and wasnt able to go to my band lesson and my FRIGGEN ANNOYING BAND TEACHER CALLED MY HOUSE and said i skipped lessons and my mom screamed at me 4 no reason and now my mom wont let me go to the mall with my best friend alexis just because my sister had to open her big mouth and say that to my mom.............................and me and my friend planed this since sunday and we really wanted to go 2 but now thanks 2 my ANNOYING BAND TEACHAER and every time i try 2 explain it 2 my mom she says i dint wanna hear it its so ******* annoying how can i go to the mall with my best friend or were the band lessons more important

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Okay. So I'm probably around you age and I sort of get what your mom is upset about. DONT FREAK OUT JEEZ. But you skipped your commitment on the day you had a test (irresponsible). and it sounds like you did it without her permission (disobedience). I have been in trouble MANY times for stupid stuff like this. but listen, going against her EVEN MORE isn't going to make things ANY better. The mall is not going to be torn down, the worlds not ending, your friends not dying, go next weekend. And in the meantime BE NICE TO YOUR MOTHER. It makes them a whole lot more likely for you to get off the hook with stuff TRUST ME. I did a few dishes, moped the house, helped my sister, and complimented my mom and I turned a 6 month punishment into a 3 month punishment ALSO on they day I was set free I got to go to the mall and they gave me 100 dollars.

    Seriously, Respect your mom. Disobedience leads to nothing but LESS freedom. and if you think shes so terrible NOW think about what she'll be like when she finds out you went to the mall.

    Source(s): fifteen
  • 1 decade ago

    I know you may hate going to your band lessons but you really should have gone. There are no ways to get around your parents because eventually they are going to find out. Maybe you can make it up to her some how but from now on you should take the lessons. If you hate them that much confront her and tell her you don't want to do them and she is wasting her money. Be as nice as you can! Hope I Helped!(:

  • 1 decade ago

    the band lessons are important because its an ensemble and if u dont participate, it's like not going to track practice or whatever--ur going to let the "team" down. but i disagree how your mom yelled at you but you should've told ur band teacher that you werent going to be there ahead of time. try to explain things to your mom (maybe again if u already have) to get everything straightened out and stuff.

    i hope i helped! :)

  • no the lessons wasnt important cause u were taking a test i am sorry that this is happening hope 4 the best

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  • 1 decade ago

    The mall can wait till next weekend.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Grow up you baby, it can wait till next week.

  • 1 decade ago

    Okay, well malls are lame anyways.. so she's doing you a favor.

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