We can't have sex. I think his penis is a bit deformed. Help/advice please?

His foreskin is tight which means he needs to stretch it to loosen it up. 9 times out 10 a tight foreskin can be fixed with daily stretching exercises for a few weeks, or if that doesn't work he can get a cream from his doctor.

Here's a link which contains stretching instructions for 'phimosis' which is the technical name for his problem:

http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/wiki/Tight_Foreski...

He must do the stretching every day in the shower but if it doesn't improve after a few weeks then he must see his doctor. The doctor can prescribe a topical steroid cream that will help loosen the tight foreskin.

This link has some more useful advice:

http://www.norm-uk.org/circumcision_alternative_tr...

EMZ: It sounds like he needs to do some stretching of the foreskin. He should see a doctor to get some steroid creme to apply. He probably isn't getting his penis properly cleansed also. He doesn't want to opt for a circumcision for sure. Just sit and talk openly. Don't ever say he is small. That will only add problems. His problem of not getting hard can be caused by this problem. He should be able to tract the foreskin totally back to properly cleanse his penis, and enjoy sex. With proper stretching and the steroid creme he can accomplish what needs to be done. Offer to help apply and watch him. He may surprise you. Good Luck Steve P.S. I hope your both old enough to be engaging in sex, and use protection.

5 inches is average, not small. So he's fine in that department.

If he has erectile dysfunction problems he needs to talk to a doctor he could have an underlying medical condition causing it. He needs to go to the doctor and get it looked at otherwise there might be a problem he can never fix.

He has a condition called Phimosis. He needs to do foreskin stretching excercises. He just needs to get a full erection, pull the skin as far back as he can WITHOUT pain and hold it here for 10+ minutes and do that at least 3 times a day.

Sounds like this man is very immature and doesn't take care of himself very well. He needed to have this stuff taken care of ages ago, not sit and let it wait.

I would tell him that you are concerned that he can't get fully erect because you heard that it can be caused by underlying medical issues like diabetes, blood pressure problems, vascular problems, heart issues etc. and you want him to go to the doctot just to make sure that he is okay.

Then later on you can tell him that you discovered a way that he can stretch his foreskin, and then offer to help him with it lol then he might not object to it and he might not be offended.

-Connor

Well 1st of all he needs medical attention 4 his erection,as a man u have to get hard 2penetrate fully.The 5 inch willy can manage if u also guide him well.

Foreskin issue,he maybe a virgin and never played with his penis when growing up.

I agree with connor except...erm sorry but 5 inches is rather small. Well id be disappointed anyway. I'd say 6 is more average.

If sex is impossible he must realise something

i wouldnt say its small to his face.. but, i would definatly prefare to know something wasnt right if i was in his shoes.

dump him