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Two women in my life, and I care deeply for them both...?
I have lived with a lady for the past 9 yrs, she has been a pain and a joy. She helps me a lot and does a lot for me, but she also has been a pain in the butt many times. Never paying her rent as agreed, and, or not helping out financially with the costs that were agreed upon. Now, about three months ago, since the previous lady and I are not engaged or married, I stayed with a lady I knew In high school for four days and three nights. I came up with an excuses and got caught! My lady friend spoken about first became irate and has been abusing me mentally and sent me to a mental hospital for 8 days. I have been diagnosed with bi-polar depression and now am on meds and therapy....the second lady made me feel so good, and I really liked her. She is so much more together and sane, who should I stay with and make note that I have a pitty case with the first lady, she has no one and is unemployed with out iinsurance or a place to stay. Any suggestions?
3 Answers
- ?Lv 51 decade ago
Your first relationship with the lady appears to be financial and she also put you in hospital for the friendship you had with the second. With the second you are happy, and that counts most in life. Your relationship with the first is somewhat peculiar because she was able to diagnose your medical condition, so she has helped you in some way. But you both fight all the time and she gets on your nerves, so if the second lady does like you enough to want you in her house, move in with her and continue to pay your share in the second ladies home, so that the matter of finances wont arise. Good luck, I hope you cure yourself of your condition:) . You could try to remain good friends with the first, but not in her home. It is rather unlikely however that she will want you as a friend while you are living with the second.. No relationship can be based on pity, only a friendship can:)
Source(s): Father is a medic and heart and gut.. - 1 decade ago
She put you in a mental hospital? Anyone who does that is not worth being with... Sorry, but it's true. I would choose the second lady, who makes you feel good. But keep in touch with the first one, because of what she did for you.
- 1 decade ago
My suggestion: Go with the second lady!! She sounds like she would make you very happy!!!