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Joel H

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52 yrs old, security officer for major hotel chain, single with my german shepherd pup "Kemper". Looking forward to retiring in about 12yrs, I know they will go by fast! Expertise: Many jobs through out my life, as my Dad said, " Jack of all trades, Master of none". Many of the questions in answers are easy to relate to if you just think about what you would do in these situations...

  • What should one do when the one they love has a mental disorder that will not let them believe you?

    It all started about seven months ago, when I saw someone else...

    My girl friend for about one yr, boarder before that, felt bad about our relationship, so I told her that I saw someone that I had known in high school, it was a one time thing and that I loved her and was going to stay with her. Ever since then she has imagined this fictitious girl friend that does not exist breaking into the house, having sex with me next to her after I have drugged her with meds and other off the wall ideas...she also feels that I let this person into the house or give her keys to get in, all bogus! She also believes that she has seen the woman a few blocks from our house and was bold enough to go and confront this person that I do not even know! She also feels that I have sex with woman at my hotel (this is where I work ) and has caused me difficulty with my work. I love her but this is killing me, what should I do?

    PS She is in the county mental health facility right now and I feel like crap...she attached me with a hoe and I went to the police. They took her to the hospital I just mentioned. Should I feel like crap?

    2 AnswersMental Health1 decade ago
  • Home loan modification denied...?

    Mortgage Co stated I did not make enough money, can you believe this? My 1200.00 month ( just interest) Mortgage was approved, but making it more affordable for me is not possible...I just do not understand this hope and change from the government. Does anyone know what the next step should be? My Mortgage Co. is CHASE, there is no second on the property and the value now is less then what the first is. Any suggestions out there? The 1200.00 is half of my monthly income...I feel lost! To make it more complicated friends told me not to make the payments and now I am 7 months behind! Living pay check to pay check suck. Is there an answer?

    4 AnswersRenting & Real Estate1 decade ago
  • My kids big screen was hit with a shoe, now the picture is distorted...?

    Can it be fixed and if so, is it affordable?

    3 AnswersTVs1 decade ago
  • Two women in my life, and I care deeply for them both...?

    I have lived with a lady for the past 9 yrs, she has been a pain and a joy. She helps me a lot and does a lot for me, but she also has been a pain in the butt many times. Never paying her rent as agreed, and, or not helping out financially with the costs that were agreed upon. Now, about three months ago, since the previous lady and I are not engaged or married, I stayed with a lady I knew In high school for four days and three nights. I came up with an excuses and got caught! My lady friend spoken about first became irate and has been abusing me mentally and sent me to a mental hospital for 8 days. I have been diagnosed with bi-polar depression and now am on meds and therapy....the second lady made me feel so good, and I really liked her. She is so much more together and sane, who should I stay with and make note that I have a pitty case with the first lady, she has no one and is unemployed with out iinsurance or a place to stay. Any suggestions?

    3 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade ago
  • These adds on the TV about getting rich with their methods...?

    Has anyone out there actually purchased one of these get rich quick programs and gotten any money to speak about? The "quick method" that is if you use it you will get 100's of thousands, and, or the "10 instant programs to use that will bring you money instantly while you sleep"...and please do not try to promote your site via this question. Thanks!

    1 AnswerSearch Engine Optimization1 decade ago
  • Is Kaiser Permenente a good hosptal for treating colon cancer?

    I know that this is an opinionated question, but if there are any survivors from colon cancer that were treated by Kaiser, I would like to know, I am presently one....thanks.

    1 AnswerCancer1 decade ago
  • what type of possible medical condition?

    These are medical symptoms, please do not gross out and call me a nasty old man...

    consistent loose bowels, amber to yellowish in color, also pinching pain in the right upper quadrant of the abdomen, take note that my gallbladder is out....earlier in my life I was diagnosed with spastic colon. Thanks for your input.

    3 AnswersOther - Diseases1 decade ago
  • Is there a grass killer that will not harm my dog?

    I have a German Shepherd and he lives in the back yard, I have been sick and not had the time or ability to keep up with the yard work in the back yard. The crab grass has taken over the patio and I was looking for an answer to my question. If there is a way to deal with this type of problem let me know, thanks!

    3 AnswersGarden & Landscape1 decade ago
  • Who is doing the Mortgage Modifications for...?

    The average guy that is just barely making the monthly payment and wants to go from a interest only to a fixed rate, 30yr loan, with these low interest rates? Lawyers are coming out of the woodwork, as usual, and trying to capitalize on the public down fall. Many individuals are getting no answer from their loan agencies, or the loan companies are blowing off the home owner and telling them that there is nothing that can be done to help them. I thought that the government was helping out everyone that was having difficulties? Nevertheless, I will stop my complaining and hope to get a helpful answer. Note that when your mortgage payment is over half of your income " after cut backs" it is difficult.

    4 AnswersRenting & Real Estate1 decade ago
  • Who will buy my car for cash?

    Brand new tires, body in good shape, needs brake and trans work, does anyone know who will pay cash for junkers? I know about Pick a part and Ecology parts, any place else known? I live in the inland empire So. California.

    Thanks!

    4 AnswersBuying & Selling1 decade ago
  • 1994 lexus ES300 instrument cluster needles out...?

    How to fix this problem without buying a new cluster (650.00) also, the LCD figures on the A/C Heater unit are fading away after I start the car. Does anyone have a answer for these two problems? Note that the back lights and warning lights on the cluster are fine, just the needles are out. And as for the A/C and heater, they work also, just the figures on the narrow screen do not work. Thanks for your answers.

    1 AnswerMaintenance & Repairs1 decade ago
  • Why Don't the Americans hear more about illegal immagrations with both parties?

    Please do not go into a pissed-off gage regarding the issue, just answer the question, thank you...

    2 AnswersImmigration1 decade ago
  • Would you rather have a President with less exsperience, or a Vice President with less exsperience?

    And don't give me info regarding how much exsperience either have...it is a simple question. Thanks

    1 AnswerElections1 decade ago
  • How to deal with renters that became more...?

    Seven yrs ago my wife desided to leave our marriage, so I ask a lady friend and her 13yr old daughter to rent a room from me for a very small rental cost. I constantly had problems collecting the rent but always felt sorry for them and did not ask them to leave. It has now been seven yrs, the daughter is now 19 going on 20 and had a baby with no father. The daughter asks me to pay for the babies food and diapers and to feed her also while she goes to nurseing school...the mother is still constantly giving me trouble with the rent and goes for weeks, sometimes months without paying...

    So, the question is, what to do...is there a legal way to deal with this, and or is there a moral and proper way that I just can not see? Note that the mother feels that she is now and has been my girl friend...as for the most difficult is the issue with the daughter and the baby, for the baby is an angel, I have difficult issues...

    Thanks for your responses!

    4 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Who will be the next President of the United states...?

    Make believe that you are not a Republican and not a Democrat and let me know your none biased opinion on this question, thanks.

    25 AnswersElections1 decade ago
  • Natural treatment for anxiety and stress...?

    Are there any easy to obtain, natural elements like herbs or foods that will treat anxiety and stress? Thanks...

    7 AnswersAlternative Medicine1 decade ago
  • Why do girls like the "Bad boy" more then the "Good guy..."?

    I have heard about the excitement and the challenge...I don't take that as a good answer anymore, there has to be more to it...elaberate for me and give me some different reason, thanks!

    6 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Republicans staying in office for Presidency...?

    Since the Democrats are too busy throwing mud at each other, is it possible for the Republicans to slip into the Presidency this coming electioin?

    8 AnswersElections1 decade ago
  • Relationships between the young and old...?

    What would be the largest gap between the male and the female age wise acceptable.in todays society..example: He is 50 and she is 21.

  • Wondering about a person I knew years ago...?

    Her maiden name was Lynda Kirkby, she lived in Burbank california and liked to tell people about the TV commercial that she and her family were in, I believe it was a cereal commercial...anyone know about this person? Note that her Grandfather lived in Montclair, Ca and she would visit there often during summer vacation. Her cousin was Mike Gilleland and he lived in Eagle rock, Ca. His little bro like to talk about "Thunderbirds" (farts, lol) Thanks

    1 AnswerFriends1 decade ago