Any1 had a mid-life crisis?

Left my marriage; moved to a big city many states away; dated alot.

Mine started when my kid turned 13 & lasted until they hit 25 & came into their sense of self. Now I'm stuck in a rut of semi-boredom. I happen to be from the school of thought that anyone who doesn't want to give their all for their children just shouldn't have them to begin with! The kid is pushing 32 & they finally have a solid career with the government & although I couldn't ever do what they do - I support their lifestyle because I love them unconditionally. Some women can benefit from hormone replace therapy (HRT). If you have no cancer in your family history, I suggest you speak to your doctor about it. Menopause is still kicking my butt & I've had it since 2000. I NEVER could have done it with a 16 year old to care for. I would most likely have been the one to run away & hide. Sometimes counseling is good for understanding ones own confusion. Then again, it can add to a person's confusion & complicate life when you need it least. If you are religious, then why not ask someone in your church for help? I'm not a follower, so I don't know how to advise you with this end of your question. I've also never had surgery. I tried going to school with a teenager & it just was a morbid waste of time & energy because that's when my kid really needed extra supervision from an adult & they weren't getting it when I was gone @ school, work & trying to do my studying. I'd hold off until they graduate if you possibly can. Only YOU know what you can handle & how much you can take on in your life.