Do friends actually judge you on penis size?

Question

So here is my situation. I'm 14 years old, and a little behind on puberty. A lot of the time when my friends mess around with each other (make fun of, Im straight) they talk about penis size. Obviously if i am behind on puberty i am going to have a smaller penis than others. Another problem is I am tall, 5 foot 10 so if someone a kid sees my penis and thinks its small given my height will they make a big deal of it? Anybody with input I would appreciate.

Update:

its not that I havent hit puberty it is that I behind compared to other kids.

Update 2:

its not that I havent hit puberty it is that I behind compared to other kids.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes and no.

We all judge each other on everything - sports, academics, looks, humor, etc
So your friends will add this into their total opinion of you, but not much more than anything else.  If you are their friend you still will be with a small penis, and if you aren't their friend then you won't be even with a massive one.
Just as they joke around with each other, they will joke around with you.  That just means you are their friend and included in the group.

Have you measured your penis?  You're probably not that much different.

I wouldn't worry too much about it.  You might be a little behind on puberty, but it hasn't been very long since all of them went through it so they're not going to be too hard on you.  If you actually are smaller (and you might not be) then you will soon catch up.

It's fairly normal for guys in pairs or groups to compare penis size, just taking a look while changing (you really can't judge anything by soft size) or showing erections.  If you're concerned, compare with a friend, or your whole group.
You may not be much smaller.  If you are, just ask them how long it took to get to the size they are now from the time they started.

Candice H · Answer

It's sad to think you have to worry about ridicule over penis size.  
Given the partners I have had, it is SO much more about what you do with your penis and the rest of your body than about its size.
Also - a very tall (and well endowed) friend of mine once told me that he is "a grower not a show-er."  So if you are not erect when spotted naked and you're worried what someone might say, let that be your line as well.

? · Answer

They might judge you but what are you gonna do about it just wait you'll hit puberty eventually and if you 14 it ain't far behind you'll probably see change with in a few months

Meow · Answer

Guys joke about that all the time, but honestly, if they saw your penis they wouldn't be thinking how big it is...they would be thinking, "Ew dick!" Because they are straight.
Now, a straight guy has only seen HIS penis, so he wouldn't know different from "small" or "big"

Don't worry about it, and don't let your friends see your penis...I don't think they have any reason to anyways?

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