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I am having a problem with sex please help ?

i am 18 a virgin am a girl and my boyfriend is a virgin too we've been trying more then 15 times but nothing it hurts way too much i dont know whats wrong with me maybe there is something wrong. i have asked my family members and they all say it hurts but doesnt hurt that much.please help i feel like am going to be a virgin forever.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    well congrats on being a virgin even tho u arent trying to wait

  • 1 decade ago

    It does usually hurt the first time, I had a friend who said it was so painful for her the first time that she cried...it's different for everyone. If you think something may be wrong than go see your doctor and ask for their advice...15 tries is a lot, so I can understand why you're frustrated.

    Maybe nerves could be making it worse...if you're not relaxed enough it will probably be more painful...same if you are not aroused enough.

  • The first time I had sex it was very very painful and only lasted about two minutes. The next times was a lil better and he third was fine! It does hurt the first time, but how bad it hurts just depends. Good luck sweetie!

  • 1 decade ago

    Take some motrin first and get some lube

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  • 1 decade ago

    use lube! i couldnt stand the pain either, but lubrication eases the pain and feels much better!

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