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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

My boyfriend took my brothers side... is'nt he like a total dick?

Soo my brother started to date this girl he says he " really likes " or whatever, and shes the same girl in some of my classes that me and my friends make fun of because she dresses like a 12 year old ( And were 16 ) and my brother is 2 years older than me. so he invited her to our house for dinner. And when I found out I invited my friends over to make fun of her. And then she got pretty upset, but i mean seriously it was funny cause shes such a freak. And shes like really really poor because like her clothes are ****** up soo yeaa. and I think she just wants to steal my daddys money and when I told my brother at dinner in front of her he told me to stop. and my boyfriend is a good firend of my brother's and he totally stood up for her! and he was like ohh yeah stop being so mean victoria. and i mean like seriously shes like a geek and mmy boyfriend stood up for her? im WAY prettier than her. so WTF?

should I like break up with him? i'm so ******* pissed off

Update:

yeah well to that army cop guy people are'nt answering it properly and seriously if you already "adressed" this question then whyy the **** are you here? RETARD

Update 2:

kay, so yea i dont need to groww up, she does.. shes the one who dresses like a 12 year old! and my boyfriend wont break up with me i'm pretty and he knowss it

Update 3:

well i am seriouss you fag, and whats so bad about it? gosh shes a freak why the hell does it matter if i make fun of her, she probably deserves it for dating MY brother god

Update 4:

aww, thankyou erin.. but the truth is that everyone does really like me hun, even the geeks i make fun of (:

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You know what I think? I think you need an attitude check, hun. You seem like those popular girls where everyone pretends to like them to to get popular, but then they talk about them behind their backs.

    You don't make fun of people on how they dress, or how much money they have. You look on what they are on the inside, or else you could miss out on a great friend.

    Look, you need to take a look at yourself. What if you were that girl? What if you were poor & you couldn't afford a lot of the stuff you probably have no? & what if, you meet a guy that you like a lot & go to his house & have dinner, but his evil sister brings all her little friends & makes fun of you and your clothes, even though you can't afford brands like hollister & abercrombie? What if she accused you of trying to take their dad's money? Wouldn't you feel hurt?

    Please have an open mind about this & actually take a look at yourself.

    Just listen, okay? You don't want to treat people like that, or karma is going to bite. Think of every nasty thing you did to someone, then go in their shoes & think on how you would feel. It would hurt your feelings, a lot. Treat people the way you want to be treated. I don't really like all those nasty comments, only because it won't let you have an open mind. You'll just get defensive. & what I said wasn't supposed to be a compliment. You just seem popular, since there's a lot of popular girls that are like that at my school. & guess what? Me & my friends always talk about them behind their backs. No one enjoys being around mean people. If you're nicer, then people will have more good things to say about you. Try it! :)

  • Jude
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    No. He isn't a total dick. And No, YOU shouldn't break up with him. He should break up with you.

    If your brother is happy with this girl and he ACTUALLY LIKES HER, no matter what the hell she looks like or how she acts should affect the way you treat her.

    He's your freakin' brother. You should grow up, be a mature 16 year old and let your brother be happy.

    Your boyfriend is so stupid for choosing you as a girlfriend because you have such a low, shallow personality.

    Get a heart.

  • crady
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    You sound to me like a prep *****. Sorry, thats purely how this is. That grew to become into extraordinarily screwed as much as ask your persons over. I dont blame your brother for being annoyed, and if i grew to become into your boyfriend i might take your brothers area to. It wasnt top in spite of in case you're pretier than her. this might no longer be genuine considering the fact that I dont understand you yet... It sounds to me which you %. on her considering the fact which you all started "puttin out" at 12 so now every time you look in the mirior you notice a slut and now you %. on decent human beings to make your self experience extra ideal. Hows that am I someplace in the ballpark right here?

  • Dannie
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Uh no, you're a total dick. Just because someone isnt as fortunate as others, doesnt give you right to make fun of them. I hope your boyfriend breaks up with YOU. And maybe you can take that time alone to grow the hell up. And second, its none of your business who your brother chooses to date.

    Its a pity that some day you will reproduce and there will be mini-yous running on this earth. Just because you're pretty, doesnt mean you're not an ugly person on the inside. Pretty is as pretty does, sweetheart and you're getting uglier every second.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Your brother and your boyfriend are right, and I KNOW girls hate to here this but you ARE WRONG. Why are you picking on this poor girl, personally I think your a ***** and actually the insecure one in this situation. So what?! She dresses like a 12 year old, your the one acting like a little ***** 12 year old to her! Grow the **** up and let this **** issue go, you need to accept that your bro really likes this girl and STOP picking on her. I hope you make the right decision and stop picking on this girl...I know your type and can honestly say I avoid people like you.

  • ally
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Looks like your boyfriend should dump you for being so shallow. She's poor? So what? Inviting your friends over to make fun of her? That's so low, immature, and pathetic. Grow up.

  • word
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    No, actually, your boyfriend is a good guy. You're a btch.

    Or this is a joke... which I think it is because you cannot be serious.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's people like you that ruin everything for everyone.

    Go and die.

    You do not deserve the life you have.

  • Scott
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    He should be so lucky. That's the bitchiest thing I've heard all month.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should be dumped by your boyfriend and disowned by your family

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