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Hasn't gotten 'accidently' pregnant in 2 years, should I be worried?
So my boyfriend and I have been together going on 2 years, and we only used condoms for a short time. So we use the 'pull out' method, and he's really good.....he's has a few close calls, never 'came inside' around ovulation, sometimes I let him if it's when my period is due. Anyways, I haven't gotten 'accidently' pregnant yet..so my question is, should I be worried about his sperm count/ability to have kids? I already have a kid, so I know I can lol. Or is pre-*** NOT as risky as people make it out to be? Perhaps even 'safe'?
*I'm not asking to be told to be more careful, i'm asking if I should be worried...I would like another kid someday. Just not at the moment. I know I am "taking chances" here..or I thought I was...It stopped feeling like it.*
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- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
My bf and I also exclusively use the pull out method and we have yet to have an "accident" as well. (For the record we don't care if we get preggo or not)
I think that as long as your guy has good control when it comes to that, that you will continue to not get pregnant. Some men don't pre-***, or if they do it is very, very little.
And as long as you don't really care if you get pregnant or not, what's the big deal?
Also, sometimes the timing is just not right. I tried for 6 months with my ex-husband to have a baby and it never happened. And we had sex sometimes 4 or 5 times a day with him always finishing inside me. After he left me he had his sperm count checked, he was fine. And I have a daughter already, so like you, I know that there are no probs with my reproductive system.
It sounds like he is just good at the pull out method and that you guys have been lucky so far. Well, "lucky" depending on how you look at it.
- 1 decade ago
me and my bf been together goin on 4 years nd used ONLY the pull out method lol he came inside a couple times and last october like 4 or 5 days in a row now im due anyday so i'd say hes just good at what he does lol (the pull out method)i thought i couldnt have kids for real cause we never had an "accident"
- Anonymous1 decade ago
u r lucky not 2 fall accidentally pregnant