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What should I do about my selfish boyfriend?

We've been dating for a good while and it's been getting worse. I love him and everything but he trippin'. WE always listen to HIS favorite songs. WE always watch HIS favorite movies and TV shows. WE always go the places HE wants to go and so on. If I say I don't want to do something, he forces me to anyway. And the days when he plays tennis are just upsetting. He plays tennis all day, comes to see me, he starts feeling on me and stuff (for his own excitement), then when I tell him I want to have sex he claims he's too tired. He always talks and thinks about himself. When I say something all he does is say, "Uh huh" like he doesn't care! Or..am I overreacting? :\

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  • =]
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    you are deffly NOT overreacting. say something to him. you need to put your foot down and show that you are important too. if you dont, he will continue to treat you this way (past experience). dont let him force you to do anything you dont want to do. you deserve to be happy. and if you aren't maybe its best to leave the relationship. if you wanna go somewhere, that he doesnt want to go, say fine ill go myself. hope everything works out for you :]

  • 1 decade ago

    you have to think to yourself and be honest, is it really ALL the time? or is it just sometimes but it really still pisses you off? if it is literally ALL the time, then you need to stand up for yourself. a relationship has 2 people in it, and each need to sacrifice and give the same amount or it wont work. tell him straight up, threaten to break up with him. if he cant change, dump him, who would wanna deal with that anyways?

  • 1 decade ago

    Find out what a Narcissist is. It is a true mental disorder, the person stays that way their entite life, it is their personality.

  • 1 decade ago

    ditch him, self centered men will always be self centered he will will always love himself more than he will ever love you sorry if that sounds blunt but ive had a relationship like that before

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  • jason
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    dump & find new one.

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