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aim91
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aim91 asked in HealthOther - Health · 1 decade ago

i have a problem with sex please help me?

i feel alone because people are telling me that its like that and that having sex does hurt but i have tried many times to have sex with my boyfriend like more than 15 times and its hurts way too much i think i may have some problemplease help did you ever go through this ??? and what did you do ??? i always end up in tears because of the pain

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You have to make sure you have enough lubrication. A lot of times this happens on its on because your body just kind of "gets ready" for it, but sometimes it doesn't...especially if you're nervous! Buy some good lube...don't buy anything that's warming or tingling at first, because it can burn. At some point, your hymen will break...you will know because there will be a little bit of blood. After that, the pain should go away soon. If you are still having problems, it can never hurt to go to a doctor!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I was in tears my first time too, but I didn't think I was going to die or anything. maybe you should schedule an appt. with a gynocologist.

    There is no way not to sound crude but....does he get it in further each time? Does the pain start at a certain point? He can't get it in at all? E-mail me if you need to.

  • Stark
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    maybe you aren't using enough lubrication. worst comes to worst, go see a doctor about it.

  • 1 decade ago

    well, the hymen . has to break, if it's not broken already. since it hurts so much, i suggest you see a doctor.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Masturbate more, it will help reduce pain.

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