My wife and I have been married for 19 years, but I fell for a woman I met at karaoke; any advice?

"She sang it all natural like, without any fancy embellishments like staying on key or on pitch."

LMMFAO!! You have serious issues, Jack, and I'm so glad you do LOL You always make me smile and laugh like nobody else can :)

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Grow up! Go home and start romancing your wife again. Chances are, she's just as lonely as you are. Probably more. Remember why you fell in love with the love of your life and stop trying to fill that void with someone new because the grass is never as green on the other side as you would like to believe.... Stop trying to take an easy way out and "Man" up and do the right thing... Your life will grow in ways you couldn't imagine. Take a chance... Bet on the two of you! Hold on tight, the way you did the day you two were married... renew your vows and never look back! Start hanging out with better people that edify and strengthen the two of you! And have a wonderful life together! It is within reach! See with new eyes... I wish you well my friend! Good luck! May God Bless You!

I have mixed feelings on this one. Is your wife as unhappy as you are? Have you considered her feelings in all this, you wrote about how you feel not your wife, that's rather selfish. How old are your children, still in school?? If so be very, very careful if you choose the leave home as there is no going back. As for your work, it will always be there. Leave your family and risk loosing everything hurting people along the way but being selfish to find happiness. Think about it long and hard, will this new woman be so wonderful after a few months or will you be looking for yet another affair?? Option !. Leave home wife and kids, hurt them ' 2 Stay with family and be unhappy, loose career. 3 Live on you own, but no going back. YOUR CALL. MAKE IT THE RIGHT DECISION. Think with your head not with what's in your pants.

Mate think about what you are saying? That sounds more like lust to me, then love. Okay so you meet a fit bird, who has some good physical assets?

Mate your wife is pregnant! And the last thing she would need during a struggling time like that is for her man to cheat on her and leave her for another woman. It's all about lust, get over it. You have a kid coming, and your your considering leaving your wife just because you meet some fit gash?

Your sounding like a bit of a prick mate to be honest, I am 16 - my dad has been hit on a lot of times over the years, sometimes by very hot women - and you know what he never cheated on my maa or anything, even when his friends tried making him. That is a real man - damn you English folks need to realise that cheating is wrong! Getting a divorce just because you fancy a shag with someone you barely know doesn't make it anyway feasible.

If your that desperate and you are too weak, to control yourself just shag her then. But don't leave your wife, and your young child behind. Imagine how messed up that kid will be growing up, and besides he will hate you when he grows up and he finds out what you did to his maa who's obviously gonna raise him. Your gonna regret it any later years to come, when you don't have anyone and your children will end up hating you for it - and you realise how much a mistake you made.

Leave it mate, and I hope you make the right decision!

uhhh... cut down on the alcohol there cheif, if you would leave your pregnant wife of 19 years and your kids for some random chick at the bar, you obviously had way too much to drink or maybe have had taken some hard drugs, or both. sounds like this has happened before, in that case, you should have never had kids or gotten married in the first place

Please God, tell me that this guy is not from Alabama...

I'm a college cheerleader, high school homecoming queen, drive a 94' TA (with a corvette LT1 engine), am at home in a tree stand, fishing, on the river, or in church or at beauty pageant, are you in love with me too?

Someone needs to figure out what the difference between love and lust is and grow up, you overgrown redneck (oh yeah, I said it, and I can cause I'm a redneck, the good kind -- but when I call you that it's in the Jeff Foxworthy connotation put down type way).

Here's your chance for happiness. I'd say go for it. Grab the the golden ring while you can. And look at it this way even if this one doesn't work out you can always go back to that karaoke bar and find you another one. We hear so many stories the same as yours on here and it is always the same thing. Should I stay or should I go? Oh and by the way. Your description perfectly fits the woman my ex left me for. Her name was Lucille and he met her in a karaoke bar singing the exact same song. Small world huh?

Mr. you need to grow the hell up ! Stop drinking and going to karaoke . What the hell you have a pregnant wife at home and four kids, what so many people would love to have. Fantasies are just fantasies . I bet you would end up a lonely old man. I feel really bad for your wife and kids.

Yeah break up with you wife of 19 years too try and hit a with a slut you met

Here's some advice, get you drunk a** out of the karaoke bar and go to the house where your married a** belongs. Might want to do something about that monkey spanking too.

You are a selfish person. What kind of a married man buys another women a drink at a bar. I sure hope to God she finds out because if you dump her and your four children for a women you met once that just is very low, VERY. I just pray that you realize the great family you have in front of you and don't make a horrible descion.