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Current girlfriend and EX girlfriend advice! :(?

I have a girlfriend of 2 years at the moment, i do love her, but very recently and ex of mine who (to be honest) i've always had some feelings for is now single.

She seems to be a little interested in me afater breaking with her boyfriend, but obviously im with my girlfriend (who i do really love! and don't know what i'd do without)

I mean, for all i know my EX might not even have any feelings for me anymore but is just being friendly.

what should i do, i've been thinking about it so much recently. and it doesnt feel nice.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Keep your girlfriend :)

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  • 5 years ago

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    If i where you i would just leave her alone. Maybe contact her a couple days a week just to see how she's doing i mean 3 years you have to care about her and i know you miss talking to her. Let her see what you really meant to her. If she misses you she WILL find a way to contact you, And in doing that it will show you how much she really cares by calling you just to see why you have called her as much.

    Being a girl myself as long as you chase her the more she is going to run. She told you she didn't know what she wanted. so in other words she needs time, so give her what she wants give her that space she asked for. Show her you care by giving her that. If it is meant to be she will come back to you. Everything happens for a reason. I know all this is hard to do but it does work it worked in my situation. Im glad i did all this. Besides doing all this will show you if it IS meant to be or not. Good luck and i hope everything works out the way you want it to, and if not then i wish you the best of luck starting something new

  • 1 decade ago

    Keep your current girlfriend.

    There's a reason your ex is your ex.

    My boyfriend from tight now did the same thing to me. We were together and he was all in love and happy with me then she came along and when she was single he treated me like ****.

    He told me he didn't love me. And that ge loved her.

    If your girlfriend loves you, you have no idea how much you're going to hurt her by leaving her for your ex.

    Don't flirt with your ex. Don't get to friendly..heck don't even talk to her..don't hurt your gf please!!!!!

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Be with your current girlfriend, she is the one you love right now... I can't say that therw won't be that time that you'll look back and wonder what if?

    Think about what makes you happy with your girlfriend right now. Think about why you broke up with your ex. Compare and contrast both. Think of the consequences of both options/decisions.

    Think about... What would happen if you were to choose ethier girl, what would ur relationship turn out like. Don't take the chance on your ex intill you know for sure if she indeed has feelings still.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Honestly..jerk.

    If you really loved your girlfriend you wouldn't even THINK about being or going for your ex. She's your ex..if it didn't work out the first time, what makes you think it would work out the second time?

  • 5 years ago

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    Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

    The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

    Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

  • 1 decade ago

    forget about it. STAY WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND. theres obviously a reason why your ex is your ex. (common sense). the best thing to do it stay with your current girl that you say you love and keep on loving her!!.

    and DONT re-build a realtionship with your ex you will only bring probs to your realtionship with your gurl., TRUST been there done that!! just stick to your gurl and you will be a very happy man!

    good luck!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Hey Fred...

    how old are you?

    There's a reason this forum is called "SINGLE and DATING".

    It's because you're SINGLE.

    YDI.

    And "DATING".

    Single means being able to date around. Duh.

    In a few years, when you grow up & get big,

    you'll find a girl that you want to marry.

    That's called ENGAGEMENT.

    At that point, you don't date any other girls,

    only the ONE you're engaged to.

    After 6--12 months of engagement,

    you'll either break-up, or get married.

    If you break-up, you go back to being single,

    and you can date multiple girls again.

    If you get married, you're legally committed to that one girl.

    Does any of this $#it make sense?

    As long as you're SINGLE,

    Why do you f-cking think you have to be committed to one girl?

    (Answer: you don't!!)

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