Can your dirt in your above ground garden be to good I have tomato plants that are growing great 4 to 5 feet?

Sometimes if it is very hot, tomatoes and even green beans will not set fruit until the weather cools down a little. It is also possible to give your plants too much nitrogen which can cause them to grow a lot of vine but not set fruit.

One more thing-A nurseryman told me that plants have two stages of growth. He said that if a plant has no stress sometimes it will stay longer in the first stage of growth until it is stressed (perhaps from drought) and then will begin to produce fruit.

how long have you been growing them?

i had a tomatoe plant for a couple months before anything started growing. idk why it took so long, but now i have huge tomatoes and the plant is falling over it's so massive.

No, the goo interior the tommato has germination inhibitors in it. you should do away with th goo with the seeds by letting the goo ferment. See the source for specified coaching.