Hi, i am thirteen year old girl (nearly fourteen) and i have never had a boyfriend.?

That's fine, just give it time and things like this will eventually work out. Just to put emphasis on it, my first girlfriend was when I was 13-14 years old (even then she cheated on me), my first true girlfriend was when I was 14-15, first kiss was with my first girlfriend, so just relax, these things will work themselves out.

Edit: Thank-you Dave!!

1st you dont need a boy to notice you! It will all come it time... right now you feel that having a boyfriend is the in thing and makes you popular... but from experience I can tell you that it will only bring you heartache. Try focusing on who you are and who you want too be before you allow someone else to sort of "water down" what you can become, there is plenty of time for social activity but the more prepared you are of knowing who you are the better choices you will make when it comes to someone else... you have to "notice" who you are before you can have someone else notice you... If I was able to go back to your age I would have never kissed or touched a girl until I was out of school possibly college, all it does is distract you from what is more important.... mainly your future.... please belive me love can be a wonderful experience but if you are not emotionally ready it can ruin you for life, and a 14 year old need not worry about being noticed by the opposite sex, but be happy you are 14 without a sexually transmitted disease, mono, baby, or a bad rash, that came about only because you wanted to be noticed. The one thing that you have in this world that no one can take away is you "innocence", give yourself another year or two and just look at your friends that are "involved" and watch how their whole appearance changes... the youthfulness will disappear right before your eyes.... trust me, you can tell what kids are kissing and which ones are not..... dont rob yourself, be safe and enjoy "your" life its gonna get complicated very soon.... the less you have too worry about the better, stay drama free, because thats all relationships are really ...... hope it helps....I was 14 when I first had relations with my girlfriend and I was lucky she didnt get pregnant but alot of other girls in the school did, and some have been successful but alot of them missed out on alot of great things.... you see the boy is free to keep doing what he wants but you will be forever with a child if that happens too you! not to mention, trying to find a husband with a baby already is nearly impossible, Im 41 now and all of the women I date have kids by "other" people, and I cant except them fully because of that.... think about it like chess, to win you have too think ahead like you are now by asking questions... just listen to the answers..... wait little girl..... there is no hurry ...... I wish I had me telling me this years ago before the internet... I probably would be in a perfect relationship, because I would have been more observant and "concious" of what it takes to be in one!

I'm 15 and I've had a boy friend before actually a few. Honestly I regret it now I just stay single. It's better to be single. At least for now. Most guys are players and take advantage of girls at that age. If you want to get noticed just be yourself. Don't change yourself for a boy. I've done that and you won't be happy with it. Smile be nice :) act like a girl and you'll get some boys don't worry.

Your still young, I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 14. Just be yourself and flirt a little around a guy you like. And I know several people who are almost 16 and still havn't been kissed, so don't worry.

Don't worry about it. You've got another 2 or 3 years to be care free. Then I'd start looking for a boyfriend. Take my advice.

I'm 16 and I've never had a girlfriend or kiss. High school shouldn't be about these things, College should!

I agree with Sammy. Just give it some time and a young man will walk straight into your life and it will be when you least expect it. Could be in a shop, at school or even a chance encounter in the street. Good luck. ;)

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You need to stop worrying about stuff like this and concentrate on more important stuff in life! You'll get a boyfriend when you really like someone and when you're ready :)

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