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Just confused.....What to do?
My bf and I have been together 5 yrs. Recently Im just confused. I dont know if its me or him or others. His family and friends annoy me with their bad habits.
Money is tight so thats always stressful.
I have kids that consider him daddy, Which he has been around since the youngest was a baby.
But recently Im just so stressed I almost feel like cutting off ties with him and anyone he knows.
I feel like Im not going anywhere in life. I just keep working and struggling.
Which I dont know if its me to blame or him or Im just confused.
I love him - He is a good person but I just feel like im being weighed down in life.
His family are completely worthless, crackheads and liars. He has no where to go and I dont want that to force myself to stay with him. He has no real people in his life other than me...But thats just my opinion again.
I am basicly the sole supported of the household. So that weighs stress on me. Maybe Im just tired of being the bread winner. IDK. Is it me? But I love him. I just get so annoied at things. Like sometimes the littles remarks he makes to people I think are rude. IDK Maybe the little things that bug him about people driving bug me about him. Im laid back with the flow type of person.
2 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Just be yourself. It doesn't matter if it's good enough for someone else.
- ?Lv 41 decade ago
I think you know the answer already, but want someone else to agree with you. Here I am, I agree with you. You would be better without him and his family. You really do not want your kids to grow up with worthless crackhead liars. You sound like you are a better person than they are. You want a better life for yourself and your kids. You work hard and you deserve the rewards that come with it. You get annoyed because you know that his behaviour is wrong. Don't feel sorry for him, he knows other crackheads, they stick together because no decent people want to be with them. I have faith in you, you can make it!