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? asked in Pregnancy & ParentingParenting · 1 decade ago

How do I punish my 13 year old daughter for masturbating?

I was extremely disappointed to see my 13 year old daughter masturbating as it is dirty and she is too young. I have decided to punish her but I don't have any ideas. What are some suitable punishments for her?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    whats wrong with you? sorry, but seriously! shes 13! whats the problem with masturbating? would you rather her go out and have sex? i dont see anyreason to punish her. dont tell me you've never done it, or even thought about it. shes not too young. lots of girls start even earlier than that. and sex i even dirtier than that, you did it. and i wouldnt talk to her about it. do you really want to embarass her ? if this happened to you how would you feel? she did NOTHNIG wrong.

  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    You don't.

  • James
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    The simple is answer is you don't, masturbating at all ages is healthy, and everyone from 0-100 does it, and if they say they don't then they're lying. Your daughter isnt doing anything wrong, shes relieving her sexualy turn ons, by masturbating. Would you rather her relieve her urges by going out and having sex? I'm willing to bet that you masturbate to, so really it makes you a giant hypocrite for lecturing your daughter on the same very thing. The only time she should be "punished" for doing this is if she does this out in public, but other then that you can't or shouldt punish her.

  • 5 years ago

    what the hell is wrong with you? masturbating is just exploring one self's body and its completely normal to masturbate. being caught masturbating is punishment enough. would you rather be in her bedroom ALONE and masturbating or going out and having sex? masturbating is way better. because that one is LEGAL

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    um...grow up. She is exploring her body and responding to new hormones in her system. This is better than her having sex isn't it? I think it is a good time for a sex talk so she understands how to handle these new hormones, but dont punish her for masterbating. Thinking your body's natural impulses are dirty is how serial killers are made. I would possibly talk to her about being more discreet so she is not caught next time, because that could lead to some serious embaressment.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You don't. Would you rather have had her gone out and had sex instead?

    Masturbating is natural and at this age she is still learning about her body. You can;t punish her for doing something that is natural.

  • 7 years ago

    Why would you punish her for masturbating it is completely normal and healthy for anyone at any age to masturbate

  • 7 years ago

    what the hell man? dont punish her for being human! just let her know to do it in private

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't. 8.5/10 teens admit to jacking it, including me. i started when I was eleven everyone I have asked said they have and theyre at oldest 13. It's normal and you have no reason to stop her from doing it.

    Source(s): me and a psychology book
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Honestly, I don't think you should punish her. Hey, we all do it! It's only human. We've all done it at one point in our life. I don't think her age really matters in this situation...

  • 1 decade ago

    Dude chill. It's hormones. She was probably extremely embaressed when you caught her so that's punishment enough.

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