Do players reap what they sow?

Yes, Dear. Everyone reaps what they sew, and that includes players. Wow. Bless your heart, he did a number on you, didn't he? Makes me sick. But, in answer to your question, all of us have to reap what we sew, and he will get his in due time. You pray that God puts a burden on his heart that he "feels" what he has done to you. He will realize it when he least expects it. At some point in time, he will actually "hurt" as you do, and probably be very remorseful. Not until it's time though. He will get played just like he did you, and he'll realize what he's done. In the meantime, I know you hurt so badly, but try to stay busy. Get plenty of physical exercise and go out with your friends. You sound like an amazing woman and very soon you will begin to feel better. You will come to realize that you are the good person, look what all you did for him. He was cruel, he was a user, he literally used you up. He has no clue what is in store for him, but he WILL get his one day. But you know what's so sad about this? The saddest thing is that he lost YOU. He will realize this one day, and it's not going to be long. But you don't want to have a relationship or marry a person like that, so beginning today, make up your mind that you were WAY too good for him, and you deserve much better. Never settle for anything less than what you deserve. Take time to heal, don't go into the dating world with an open wound, for it will only get infected and prolong your healing. Heal and make yourself well. Then go out there and live like there's no tomorrow. God bless you !

Revenge is not the answer. It will eat at you if you can't let this go. It was his loss, some people are always going to be takers and never givers, he was obviously the taker. If you loved him like you claimed, you would still want him to be happy. Yes, even if that means without you. For him to suffer just like you did will not change anything. Concentrate on being the best person you can, and someone will notice you for yourself when you least expect it. You are better than he is, so carry on with your life, you might just realize how lucky you were that this happened before marriage and children. Hope you get strong again, make good friends and don't be afraid to lean on them. Then you can reciprocate back to your friends when they need you. You need time, so don't be so hard on yourself. Life can be wonderful. Take care.

There are two ways to look at it: the Adolph Hitler way and the Joseph Stalin way.

Hitler got what he deserved. He took Germany down in ruin and he died by his own hand in a cramped concrete bunker. Clearly, he reaped what he sowed and got what he deserved.

However, OTOH, Joseph Stalin did not get what he deserved. He remained firmly in absolute power until the moment of his death by natural causes. Just as clearly, he did not reap what he sowed and did not get what he deserved.

Are players like Hitler or Stalin? Only time will tell.

Karma dear girl, one day real karma will deal with him; it might not hurt him the way you want it to, but it will be in the way that will hurt him most. It takes its time and when it arrives it will smack him so hard upside the head he won't know what happened.

The longer it takes, the worse the retribution. Sometimes it comes by express mail, sometimes on the bumper of a speeding Mack truck. If it takes too long, he better stay clear of railroad crossings. And the train might have chlorine in the tanker cars.

No, usually not.

It's certainly a nice optimistic thought, and it can help motivate you to keep going through life if nothing else is working.

But I don't believe that karma exists. Not everyone gets theirs in the end. What goes around doesn't necessarily come around.

You are responsible for creating your own future.

He already did sweetheart. He lost a good woman: You.

And you got a reward for being good to him. You're stuck with a jerk like that.

Still hurts 'though right? Just remember it's natural, even if you're the winner in this, but the pain and anger pass.

The right guy will show up someday, and you'll realise you won again.

Aww..... Hunnie ~ Yes they do & sometimes they never find true happiness in Life because they are constantly looking for the next best thing ~ that they miss out on the true REAL thing in their life! I know your hurting & it seems like it will never end ~ But I assure you... one day when you least expect it.. you will find the one you are meant to have & you'll learn later, that he ... never found anyone to love him like you did! =,) He'll get his I promise!

They do say what goes around comes around

Lets hope someone uses him in this way

You may hear in a few years his new wife plus child/children

have taken him for all he has ??

That would put a smile on your face ?

Sometimes. But sometimes they go on to get married and have a great life. It's like for some people Karma doesn't exist. It's not fair but it's life.

As much as we would like them to suffer the same way we have, sometimes it doesn't happen.

Karma will be a biotch for him, I believe what goes around will come around. The best revenge is living a good life, IMO