Why can't he or won't he admit that he has feelings for me or at least let me move on?

This is long but just as long as you have good enlgish I don't mind reading it haha; Ok sounds like he's pulling a Hannah Montana...he's trying to get the best of both worlds. People like that, who don't know what they want, or can't make a commitment, you need to leave him at once (not your friendship, and I don't mean psychically) but leave the idea that you two should be together. He really wants to do something, it is sooooo painfully clear, BUT at the same time I think he's terrified at the stigma that will always be there with being gay, and if you two would date (therefore making it public) he would then have to justify not so much to his family and friends but to the WORLD and ADMIT he's gay (and he just doesn't know for sure). So don't put pressure on him, tell him if he isn't going to date you then to back off your dates, and in the meantime try to help him with his emotions and feelings. One day he'll come around, it isn't so much society, it is what is going on INSIDE HIM that's the problem. He can't face the music, and most of us can't.

Well, boy you have to take thing in your hands not his.

i've got a plan for you : so this is it

1. Let him meet you in your home at night when your family is out or something ?

2. Get a movie and heat up some popcorn and get a soda and a wipe cream.

3. The movie must be funny and it must be something you both have seem before. In the middle of the movie take the wipe cream and spray it all over him and run have a food fight.

4. then you say " stop stop i give up " come lets clean the mess up . go near him and them hold him from the back and lick and kiss the wipe cream off him. 2 things might happen

1. he kisses you back because he loves you 2. he get angry because he love to be in control

1. if he kisses you back then go with the flow take off his shirt and kiss and all that but no ******** or sex. then tell him to stop tell him that if he's straight why is he doing this tell him that if he wants more to tell you and admit he's bi or gay or you the perfect guy for him. and then see what he has to say if he says yes I'm gay then cuddle, no sex or anything sexual

2. if he gets angry tell him it did not mean anything there was a moment and you were caught in it . lol

5. the next day tell him if he want to be with you or not and if he kisses you again that you will not be his friend anymore , stop playing games with me enough is enough

i hope this helps

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Your brother's idea is good. Your friend is in denial and you need to kick him out of it or tell him to leave you alone. He obviously has pretty strong feelings for you so if you make him come out he'll probably do it. If he says he's straight just tell him straight guys don't repeatedly kiss a gay guy over a several year span.

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Many girls break up with their significant others, is because they need time to figure things out. Don't take it personally, if you want her back, you have to show her you can help her. If you love her then you'll let her go, that's it. Not everybody who you date in high school you end up staying with, the chances are extremely unlikely. So if she doesn't want to, then you need to let her go.

I agree with your brother, you need to give this guy an ultimatum. If he is unable or unwilling to admit his feelings for you, then you are going to have to step up and walk away from him. You say you need him in your life, but he is not doing you any favors by leading you on only to push you away and say he made a mistake or got caught up in the moment. I've never heard of straight guys kissing their male friends because they got caught up in the moment, it just doesn't happen. He's clearly into you, but if he's not willing to admit it, then you need to move on and find someone who will. Good luck whatever you do.

You need to tell him that he needs to make up his mind whether or not he needs to be with you and stick with it. Tell him that what he is doing isn't fair to you and you can't and won't continue to be done like this. You have your life to live and you have to be happy. For some reason, he is very afraid to admit to himself and others how he truly feels. If he continues with this behavior I would quit even being his friend.

Tell him to stop if he won't go the distance with you. If he is going to do boyfriend things, he'd better BE a boyfriend. Also, he really likes you but I think he's leading you on as well then dangling you on a string because he knows you have feelings for him. What you really need to do is leave him alone especially if he keeps interfering with your dating life you need to cut him out entirely and live your life.

He's gay and in denial. He's probably just scared to come out, stay away from him, honestly.

"My brother told me to give him and ultimate either admit how he feel or let me move on should I? "

-Your brother is right. Give him an ultimatum, what he is doing isn't fair to you at all. Honestly his behavior is kind of creepy and he could become unstable or something, get away from that.

Dude, at your age you have more to worry about than romance. In five years you won't remember his name. Incidentally your ha ha friend is NOT straight. He's in the closet--which means he's nothing. Find a real man--one who knows what and who he is. Your "friend" is never gonna grow up. If he hasn't done it by now, it's not on his agenda.

Move on. You need to forget about him. Plenty of fish in the sea.