The ex wife is leaving me and the kids, what to do next?

I don't understand how a woman can leave her own children

I never could and didn't

Believe me you will Be fine..

Join Support Groups.

in yout strs

Join PTA

Church Groups

Resources to Help . ( Find out all in your area)

Have your family help ( re Support Baby Sitting for your Daughter )

Enroll in Community Activiities etc/

Your daughter will need more help as she is 7.

Stay Close to Friends

Meet Other Single Dads who can give you support re coping

Are you near your own parents. Ask them to help you

Grandmothers are excellent. and Grandfathers too

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You might want to speak with her about talking to the kids before 'the day'. So they have a chance to talk to her and say their good byes. Then when that day does come that she packs up the car and leaves you and the kids don't have to be there. Yes it's going to be very very rough on both you and them. However if this way her choice to leave then you need to remember it's not at all your fault. You can love and care about someone with 100% of your abilities and still they find away to leave. Make sure each and every day you let them both know how much you love them, they need to know even if their mother left doesn't mean you love them any less. I'm so sorry you have to go through this and even more sorry their are kids involved. Being hurt can be tough and trying to love can be even more tough. Just remember this doesn't mark the end it marks the beginning of something new. Good Luck!

Well 1st and foremost im very sorry for your kids that your ex is a selfish person,MOMS DONT LEAVE THEIR CHILDREN FOR ANY REASON...So now what really needs to be done is like always you just need to be up front and honest with yourself and your children about your feeling on this event and ask them what their feelings are as well I think a family ice cream date is in order and then maybe a movie then before bedtime a get together hug and feelings session would be what i would do to handle this.I find that talking and most importantly listening to your children about their opinion on subjects of the heart is the best way of learning how to handle things.Children are so much wiser than most people give them credit,I hope all goes well as im sure it will as long as they have you for a father their going to be just fine!

Actually this sounds a lot better than her moving down the street. At least you don't have to deal with her every other weekend. Don't make a huge deal over it to the kids, but ask them how it makes them feel, especially the 14 year old and also don't go WAY over the top in trying to distract them. Go to a movie or do something that you've always wanted to do with your kids... just don't go to Disney or anything. Allow them to be sad, and give them lots of hugs!!!

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Sorry Larry. You need a good support group like someone mentioned and if needed talk to a professional councilor who would be equipped to deal with issues such as what you are facing. Don't try and go it alone like allot of men do. And not to be mean you need to speak to a lawyer and make sure what rights you have and don't have in the event you want or need to use them. I am asking all Christians to pray for Larry tonight that he may know God's presence and that God would direct him.

Say goodbye to bad rubbish and go get icecream with the kids to bond and talk just in case they might have questions...ice cream has a way of loosening the stress of a day.

You've got some big adjusting to do. Talk to a minister or an attorney about options.

Sue for child-support and kiss that ***** good-bye with a smile!

breath a sigh of relief and raape her with child support.