If you were dating/ sleeping with a married man....?

No, it would not matter to me WHO filed, it would matter WHY either one of them filed...just because you and I may not get along, doesn't mean each of us might not get along famously with other people...y'know???

Who filed isn't important in the scheme of things. The exact reason the marriage is ending may well be relevant to each person's next partner...the person who is doing the filing may have relevant reasons to divorce, but their reasons may not have any bearing on your potential relationship with their soon-to-be-ex...

That really depends on the situation. My "ex" husband and I are not yet divorced because after HE walked out on me and our child to move in with his mistress and filed for divorce, he dragged the divorce out as much as possible. We are now separated for 2 years and should be finalized at any moment. He is still living with his mistress and I have moved on and been with a man for the past six months whom I've known for my entire life. I wasn't just going to sit there forever while my ex cosied up in his brand new house with his little blond mistress and wait and wait and wait for a divorce before I moved on. And he has brought this girl around his own family, has had her many times around our daughter, and has refused to let me ever meet her.

Been there DONE that one. I was married at 16 divorced by 19 and living with another by 20. I was in an abusive 1st marriage. He told me to my face that my mother paid him to marry me just to get my trouble making butt out of her and dads life. He thought I was his property. Anyway. He went to the Army because my Oldest sister told him it would be a EASY JOB. they pay you to travel, put a roof over your head, give you money to play with Army trucks, Pay your medical and life insurance, and give you uniforms to wear. Long as you live on Post they supply you a place to live. So he enlisted. We were seperated I was staying with my abusive parents. Anyway mom bought a bus ticket and sent me to him. It was awful. He was even more abusive after I got there and had no family to save me from him. So I met this guy We Me , My Husband at the time, And 3 guys were sharing this 16 by 80 3 bedroom trailer. We bought the food for everyone. I done the Cooking and cleaned the house and done the laundry, Alan and Tracy paid the Rent and this other guy paid the utilities. So it all worked out great. Well after I had been there about a week 3 of them went to the field for Manuevers and training. The one guy stayed behind. He was great. He had the most beautiful eyes and had a loving heart. We could and did talk for hours. We played cards and cooked and done everything together that week my husband was gone. Then we had an affair. I did not know until after my husband came back from the fielf that this guy was a married man.That 3 days I was with him was so great. It changed my hole out look on life. WOW someone could be so nice do things I wanted to do and just enjoy being together. WOW. Then I found out he was married. He was married Dec 8 1980 and she left his Februuary 8 1981. II met his March 20th 1981. We had our affair April 6, 7 and 8 1981. He asked me to marry him I said yes. I even told my husband I wanted a divorce. He filed it in June 1981 and it was final Sept 2,1981. Then It took us until May1984 to find his wife and I paid for his divorce June 18th 1984. I was with him At court. She never even showed up. We were married June 18 1984. Our son was born August 9 1982. I was just tired of all his putting it off and after our son was born he started treating me like he never cared if I was around. I told him NO WAY he made our son and was gonna be there For 18 years While we raised him together. We were NOT tearing our son up running him from this house to that house. With daddy this weekend and mommy the next. That was 29 years. ago,

maybe she was there as moral support now they are a couple