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If you were a 26 year old woman...?

and you married a 61 year old man (this is true, by the way..she is Asian and he is American)..and you have been married for 7 years...would you eventually evolve into an old lady , by his actions and attitudes...or would he turn into a young man, by her actions and attitudes...Who influences who...(He does not like to go out or socialize)..Who has the biggest influence??

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  • 1 decade ago

    i find it hard to believe that its true love which made the woman marry such an older man. Who has the biggest influence? i think it depends on the relationship but it's mostly the older person.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Life is not a fairy tale. A younger woman doesn't make an older man young again. As for influence, who do you think? Mail order brides are little more than indentured servants.

  • Sally
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Why does anyone have to influence anyone?

    He may not mind staying home while she goes out, I know a couple like that. He's already done the bar scene and would rather stay home while she dances the night away.

    If they've made it 7 years already something must be going right.

    Let them enjoy it their way.

  • 1 decade ago

    well, age would not be the only factor here. Some men in their sixties are still full of vitality and as long as he is healthy, there's no reason they both can't do things together. If it is more of a marriage of convenience than love, I suspect neither would change to suit the other,they would just do their own things.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You a big winner my wife is 21 i am 42 she alway say look i am the small now you is 26 he is 61 and you is big thank.

    Source(s): To me i think both of you are happy me and my wife is happy
  • 1 decade ago

    He has a bigger influence. My mom and dad have 20 years age gap and my mom turned old very soon! :(

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He's probably having a mid life crisis.

    She is probably a gold digger looking to become a trophy wife.

  • 1 decade ago

    Men Mostly i think

  • 1 decade ago

    it doesnt matter its all about if he takes care of her lol

    http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=201010... pls answer mine

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