Please help me!! I'm a guy having problems with a girl.?

Bob, you kinda recounted my story that happened quite a few years back. :)

If anybody tells you how exactly girls think, they will be half lying (at least that's what I think, because I don't think there is a general way in which all girls will think.).

What makes you so sure that she's trying to tell you that she doesn't like you? Maybe she wants to find out? There can be lots of such questions.. but I think this is the best you can do:

Wait it out for some more time. See how she reacts. Does she start talking to you again or does she continue her 'turning away' acts. If she continues to avoid you, I think you can probably go over to her (in a gentlemanly fashion) and ask her if she's cross with you because of anything. From experience, even if there is something, most girls I've seen never responded right away. They just said things like "No.. why do you ask?". If that's the case, tell her that you are sorry if you did anything wrong and that you liked talking to her and now you felt uncomfortable about this alienation. And then move on. If she tells you there is something, of course you'll have an answer to that.

All said and done, if she doesn't like you (now or for ever), remember the game goes on. Tell yourself you have to move on and concentrate on other things in life - your schoolwork, your sports, your 'guy things'. I don't think I'll be wrong when I say this: that's lots of real girls will probably like you when you don't behind them and follow your interests in life. That way, you are much more a man worth pursuing :) Generally concentrate on having a good life and you'll probably soon come across your beauty.

All the best.

When you guys were skating, did you recall of doing anything "flirtatious" to her like touching her and making your move like what other pervert guys would do to girls. If so, then she read your actions and it's a sign that she should avoid you (to prevent any future mishaps)

If you aren't one of the guys mentioned in my previous sentence, then it's simply the girl's problem. Maybe something caught her up that day (skating with you but didn't ask permission and she was caught by her mom or dad) or maybe she was thinking of something and then diverted her anger on you. There are a lot of situations, reasons and explanations especially if a girl suddenly does that to a guy out of nowhere.

DON'T BE A COWARD to ask her what's wrong, what happened and why is she like this or like that. Since you guys are friends, then you should ask her then in a friendly and normal way. If you don't, then this problem will keep replaying in your head and then you'll regret it all throughout your school year.

IF YOU REALLY LIKE HER, or if you DO HAVE FEELINGS FOR HER, then go and ask her out.

Be friends again. Win her trust and the friendship you've lost.

NOTE: If she treats or gives you the cold shoulder, it's best if you back off. But make sure when you back off, just act formal as if nothing happened and show at least 1% concern to her (for the sake of politeness). Don't run after her like what you did before, it will make her puke and avoid you the more. worse case scenario, she'll avoid you like hell.

hope this helps.

goodluck~

I'm a girl, 16 myself (though I'm not sure how old the girl you like is) and to be completely honest, most girls if their asked on a date will say yes because it's a pressure thing. Well think about it and establish weather we like this guy or not. She might have had a wonderful time with you but just decided, he's nice, but I can't date him, that would be awkward. So as sad as it is, some girls will just avoid you to stay away from what they think is leading you on.

Best solution from experience?

Ask her why.

I get so frustrated with guys because they refuse to be up front. If their sad, tell us! Now all girls are different but that's from my experience.

Finally, I know you probably won't like this, but I don't understand the purpose of dating, you spend time together, maybe hold hands and kiss, but other than that, I really think every thing else should be left for marriage. It's great to be single and have friends that are girls, there is no awkwardness and you get to just hang out. No one gets hurt (usually) and it's much easier to be open.

-Girls perspective I know, but that's what I've got, hope it helps! :D

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maybe shes not allowed to date and so shes been avoiding you after that?

or she just dosent want a relationship yet.

there could be a number of other reaasons, dont blame it on yourself. let her know she been acting differently and ask her whats up. let her know ur a FRIEND and she can tell u anything. im sure she'll tell you then

Best advice: move on. You're only 17. Focus on schoolwork, that's more important for you right now.