how do i know its over?

I'm sorry but, it sounds like he's got someone else. You are not paranoid.

Confront him when he comes home. Ask him flat out who the whore is and if she is the one he wants to be with. And that if there is another woman, you have a right to know as YOUR the one getting hurt in the end.

Sorry your going through all of this. I hope things get better for you soon.

Babe... it's on it's last string. Not much to do, being how you aren't married, maybe you should focus more on you now, and your loss.... PROVEN fact: after a couple loses a baby; if by nature or by choice, it is most common for the couple to break up with in 1 year of the loss. He didn't want the baby right? and you also said that it was your choice to keep it. Well that right there might have told him, that if it does happen again, you will not listen to what he is requesting... and your gonna be a single "baby momma".

Yes, dear... I have been thru the exact situation before, so I know how you feel, and what your probably thinking. Some sort of intuition a woman tends to have.

ADVISE: Talk to him openly, BE READY for him to say that you guys are drifting apart..., and if he doesn't suggest some sort of help? Don't be a nag... cause no one likes that... and understand that this just might the beginning of something entirely different for you guys, or a brand new start for YOU!

Hi

I know that is very difficult to end up after 4 years. You still have feelings for him and all tough you see all the signs you hope that you may be wrong. The point is not just to end up but haw to do it

For start try to change the way you behave. Start copy him. If he go out alone then you go out with friends as well. Find a hobby. If you usually calling him 2,3 times a day - Stop calling him. Be completely different from what you used to be and see if he notice it. Make him feel that he is losing you.

If you manage to do that you will make him worry for what is going on and he may want to talk with you about it. Then you can take control over the situation.

I notice that You say nothing about your self ! Haw you react when he go out alone, when he is not kissing you....etc. If you want to share more with me write me

PS I apologize for the spelling mistakes but English is not easy!

love

Nadia

I think he has a girlfriend and YOU are the one he is cheating on her with.

He wanted you to have an abortion because he knew he would have to take on responsibilities as a father, and then his other girl would find out.

He also doesn't want to go out because he's afraid he might be seen with you.

I hate to say it...but the writing is on the wall and i think you already know that he has turned away from you! Best advice that i can give is end it and walk away with your dignity intact! You have tried and he doesnt seem interested! Goodluck!!!

I would mention to him that I wanted to just break up. If he seems like he cares then ask him to sit down and talk this out with you. If he seems as if he doesn't care then you know he doesn't really care about you and you will know to move on.

If you are questioning your relationship then it is over. This always happens when people sleep together without being married. When are people going to get that?

YOU are emotionally cheating on HIM with all your cynicism.

stop whining and complaining and being selfish. swallow ur pride and ego and compromise.

If he stopped kissing u...u kiss him.

if he stopped holding u after wards...u hold him.

if he's watching movies...watch them with him.