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ok. So I am a selfish B !t ch?

So I have always had these conspiracy theory problems. Like thinking people ar talking about me when they are not, at least not to say anything bad.

I find that I am angry like all the time lately and if I don't get what I want I like freak out on my BF.

And Then I turn it to what I want and my thoughts and needs and completely lose sight of his thoughts and needs.

Obviously I am trying to find a counselor I can afford, but I am just not sure what I can do in the meantime to save my relationship and let him know that it matters to me to treat him the right way like he deserves.

What can I do since he has already been so beyond understanding and forgiving with me to keep him while I go through dealing with this, so we can both have happy lives together?

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  • Taylor
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Calm down.

    And don't call yourself names. It doesn't help.

    Stop ranting on your boyfriend, it upsets him. He loves you, but this young love will dissapear if you continue to hurt him. Rant on FML.

    Try to be more sweet... Be polite, say hello, ask how people are. Take a deep breath.

    You're loved. Remember that. x

  • 1 decade ago

    Your boyfriend is a saint for sticking around. Understand that he does love you or he would not put up with you, but he can only take so much. You do need to go to counseling. If you can't afford it, find a trusted adult or pastor to talk to. If you do not get help you both will be miserable. Good luck.

    Source(s): success through therapy.
  • 1 decade ago

    well youv recognized the problum now its up to YUO to make a moov dont listen to other people DO YOU change if you realy want it you can do it

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