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Meaning of dreaming being hugged?
small background: My half sister and her father (he and my mom are divorced long ago) had a huge fight, they not speaking to each other and they actually expect that the other will apologized. She lives abroad, and so I. Her father and I are not close but I appreciated him and see him every time I go back to my country (for visit).
One month after the big fight, my sister’s 8-year-old boy has been diagnose with leukemia, he’s under quimio and reacting very well. He has spoken with his grandfather but still my sister and him are not speaking. It seems that they are just waiting for the other to ask?!
They both have huge prides, so I think this can go on for a while (so far almost 3 months)…… and makes me sad to see that, but at the other hand I do not have a kind of relationship with her father in which a can just call and talk to him about it and my sister says that if he asks to speak with her, she would do it but won’t take the initiative to be the first.
Out of the blue, last night I dreamed about my sister’s father, when he saw me, he hugged me so tight and I could somehow feel his pain, and I had the feeling he was trying to tell me to help or find a way to solve the situation between him and my sister. What does it mean?
I’ll appreciate your answers .Thank you
1 Answer
- ZolaLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Yes, you are empathetic, you feel the pain of your sisters dad. it is sad to witness this. Both of them are too prideful, willing to talk only when the other one bends first. And meanwhile There is a little boy facing something so terrifying; its bad enough to face something like that as an adult; imagine the pain and fear this child is going through. life is too short to allow this nonsense to continue. Both of them are behaving like children, while the actual child is suffering. Contact the dad and explain that you had this dream, that you feel his pain, that he (as the eldest one in this scenario and hopefully the most mature), must put his pride aside for the sake of his grandchild, and reach out to heal this rift between him and his daughter. The emotional fallout is affecting the boy and impacting on his healing. Children are highly empathic and zone in on and feel this sort of pain. Despite her pride, your sister needs her dads support as she deals with her sons illness. That is more important than pride and needs to be put first. The child has to come first. Your sisters dad will be open to this. He wants, desperatly, to be there and offer his emotional support, hence the hug. He hugged you because you, as the sister, offer the closest contact He dares right now. he's afraid to offer it to his daughter, your sister, afraid of rejection. He feels pain and fear, He is human with feelings. You can be the bridge, the link for them. Talk to him.
