Should I tell my brother it is beyond gross for him to date a teenager?

no

Tell him it is his choice in the end, but that you worry that he is a little to old for her.

Ask him if he really thinks it is fair that in ten years he will be middle aged and she will be starting her first real job in the world as an adult.

Ask how society will view him, because as of right now, even thinking she is "The One" at an age like that really puts up some red flags.

Put some deep thought into what you want to say to him, tell him you just don't understand and that is why you are asking, because you want to know so you can except it. Negative and snippy comments will most likely drive you two far apart.

Because when he is in diapers at 60 she will just be saying good-bye to her youth of thirties and is it really fair to either of them to let all her young years go.

Also since his has lived his life and she is just barely learning what life is, and who she is.

Not sure where you live but by law this is unlawful and he could end up in jail for 20 years, for all she has to do is say he raped her even if he thinks she won't she could if he ever decided that she is not what he wants. we're talking about a child and he is suppost to be a man and she is young enough to be his daughter. Come there has got to be older women out there that would be interested in him. Ask him is 20 years a long time without freedom and being around your family? Tell him to check out the sex offenders web sites and learn about what could happen to him.

I'll pray for your brother to make the right decision before it's too late...God bless you!!

Chestermolester

Tell your brother to stop going to chuckie cheese's and start finding some chicks at work or at a club or something. say exactly that but in a semi joking way. if he asks if your joking be hesistant and say not really. He'll get it. That's how guys get messages across to other guys so try it out. He won't be offended, because I bet you guys his own age have said meaner jokingish things to him in general, maybe not about him dating girls that are 20 yrs younger than him

personally i think it's disgusting too.

what u can do is to advise ur brother. things like "how will her parents think?" "are u sure she will be there for you when you are 50yrs old?"

try to give him lots of negatives comments and maybe he'll think deeply about it.

i will be shock too if i've a daugther at 15yrs old, telling me her bf is a 36!

yes it is your place to say something. it doesn't matter if the girl's parents are ok with it or not. your brother is a pedo and sex offender. tell him to break it off or he will end up in jail. it is against the law.

Yes, you should say something.