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What to do when your boyfriend never says he loves you.?

Okayy so here's wats going on: me nd my current boyfriend have ben dating for 6 months goin on 7 nd we have kinda ben argueing a lot lately buht tht is just b/c I was on my period nd I can't reely control wat I do as hard as I try. so anyway me nd hims both came from relationships ware both our exs cheated on us and started dating eachother so ever since they found out tht me & my boyfriend are dating they have ben making our lives hell..also recently we went to minnesota & we bonded a lot & had fun 2gether nd this was the onli time he has ever hinted @ saying he loves me and I never push him to say it b/c I know how hard it was for both of us having had our heartsbroken buht lately there hav ben other girls all ovr him nd I feel so helpless b/c he is very aware of other peoples feelings so he strives to make evry1 feel bettr I've evn talked to him abt it b/c just yesterday I caught him with his hands around another girls waist nd she had her hands around his neck & I couldn't help feeling lyk I'm not good enough for him..what do I do.?? Someone help plz.??

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    tell him that that is not right. straight up say that. tell him to choose who he wants to make happy, you or other girls. you two both need to forget about the past and start looking at the future

    Source(s): personal experience
  • 1 decade ago

    If your boyfriend had his arms around another girl, then it might be time for you to go for someone different. He obviously isn't worth your time. It could just be a misunderstanding though, so it wouldn't hurt to ask him about it. But go with your gut feeling. If you think something is wrong, then something probably is wrong. And as for the love thing.. it takes time for some people to fall in love. At least he isn't lying to you and saying he loves you when he really doesn't. It'll happen when the time is right. I'm really sorry to hear that though.. I hope everything works out for you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think try to show him that its not a big deal while your trying to find a new one .

    He is just wasting your time maybe he thinks it was just a rebound .

    So i think its better for u to move on the fact that he never even told u that he loved u that means he is not sure of the relationship.

    Get out of that relationship when you still can , its not gonna be easy but either way its sounds like is not sure of what he wants.

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  • 1 decade ago

    hmm. this is a bad situation because not only do you feel like he wont say he love u ( but maybe he doesnt cus its only been 6 months) but u also caught him flirting with another girl. He shouldnt have had his arms around her... thats completely inapropriete. if iu were u i wouldnt put up with it. u need to tell him if he cares about you then he needs to show it and learn how to control his hormones.

  • 1 decade ago

    Wow that is so mean. If I saw my man doing that I would flip. I wouldnt yell at him, I would just leave and not talk to him anymore. Apparently he doesnt respect you enough to be doing that. Thats so ****. Im so sorry.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    1st of all you don't need to be with someone who is holding another girl...

    2nd you've been dating for 7 months...duh! he's not going to tell you he loves you!! Love is a commitment between to people... a commitment that children aren't going to be able to keep or make without lying...

    GOD Bless,

    Source(s): ~Me
  • 1 decade ago

    Just say i love you to him! Make the first move, Maybe he wants YOU to say it to him. Then he'll feel more comfortable and he'll say it to more often(:

    Hope this helps!

  • 1 decade ago

    tell him u <<3 him...nd if he stays quite..ask him do u luv me in a certain way.....

  • 1 decade ago

    find a new man.

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