For adults over 18 only Our sex life.?

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Please, respectful adults only... Both my gf and I are kinda kinky, and maybe sex addicts, or like nymphos, but we don't do anything illegal, or even unhealthy, but sex is just about the only hobby that we partake in. I use to play golf, allot, not anymore, but don't miss it,  Is this not a healthy lifestyle? We have been together over 5 years, and it hasn't slowed down at all, in fact sex has become more consuming than it started out to be. We have heard from some of our friends that we should get help, others say we lucky and should enjoy it while it lasts, (like its going to stop soon), we both don't want that to happen. I guess what I'm asking for here is your opinion, I know the  results won't be scientific, but do please give us your honest opinion either way, how you feel, and maybe offer us some suggestions,(and even include your contact info, if you want to get to know us better)..he he...Were a swinging couple (40's)  that doesn't have much of a social life except for our sexual play and our work...is it ok, or should we cool it, and expand our interests, also; if you want to know more about us, how we live, where we live, (small town)  we do want to be able to help others with their sexual problems, or just want to talk honestly and discreetly  we are willing to listen, this may just be our life mission to help others with an area that is going very good for us, maybe too good. Don't be shy open up and let us know how you really feel about our life, I don't mean to brag but as far as our love life goes, it would be hard for me to imagine it being any better. If your a professional in any area that may benifit from talking with us, then do contact us, we are so wanting for this to be a more positive part of our life. Tell us what do you think.

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If it ain't broke...

... don't fix it!

Seriously, if you're both happy with whatever level of kink you have in your relationship, what does it matter what everyone else thinks?

The mainstream "vanilla" world is WAY too uptight, to the point where guys like me have to defend our interests to those who simply don't "get it" (though I'm generally able to at least make them understand the attraction of BDSM, though I have yet to raise any new converts).

I think you two have a great relationship going. I wouldn't recommend changing a single thing.

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Dark Angel 1 · Answer

As long as you both are happy and content don't worry bout it>>You better get all you can now as when we guys and girls get older we lose many interests and sex is one for some i have heard...I guess i'm saying to smell the roses every day as life can be great..

Dave · Answer

Well your doing what I would dream about but never could do because my beliefs interfere with those actions.  I feel if you enjoy it and its not illegal keep doing it but I understand where that feeling of guilt comes in about all I can say is enjoy every minute of it and enjoy life

Anonymous · Answer

If you're happy and she's happy why worry about the rest? i have heard soooo many times that sex is healthy so don't worry and enjoy it while you can=]

Jenx · Answer

I honestly believe that if you are both happy and in love then carry on having as much sex as you please! Just because your sex life hasn't dwindled doesn't mean you need help, enjoy yourselves.

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