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Please help with me. I am trying to help her, but there is nothing else I can do!?

So my best friend who I love with all my heart is dating the boy i hate the most in the world. He is actually hurting her, because he cares more about basketball than he does about her, and when she is standing by him, he plays basketball instead of being with her. I try to make them break up, because he is hurting her and making her cry, but she gets mad because i am jumping into her buisness. I tell her im just trying to protect you, but she dosent care. She broke up with him, and now she is thinking about getting back with him for the second time (1st time he broke up with her, because he said his life was too busy with basketball and everything) the second time she broke up with him. Im just trying to protect her, but i dont kno what else to do. Help please?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Talk to him and not her. Tell him to treat her right, becuase you dont want her heart broken. Tell her that you arent too happy with her desicion, but tell her that no matter what she chooses, you will be there for her no matter what./ IF she gets a broken heart, its her fault for not listening. ITs a part of growing up and there are plenty more guys in the world.

  • 1 decade ago

    It's her life and her relationship. All you can do is be there for her when or if she needs a shoulder to cry on.

    I know she's your best friend and you love her but it's her decision as to who she does or doesn't date.

  • 1 decade ago

    you just have to let her figure it out on her own. i know it will be hard but in order for her to see it how you see it she may just have to suffer a bit more. just continue to be tere for her and support he in this hard time some relationships can be really rocky.

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