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ok first you need to be the one to pick out the girl make sure its a close friend you can trust but remember if you do this you need to make some rules that your comfortable with and not to sound like a perv but if you dont want him touching her you need to say so talk it over with the person you chose and your boyfriend and make sure its something that you want and can handle

A "menage a trios" or threesome is an emotionally ,physically,and mentally taxing situation that should not be entered into very lightly. It has the potential to destroy and realign relationships. For example,one partner may not be able to forget the act even though they were a party to it, or one partner may decide to continue the sexual aspect after it was supposed to terminate, or one partner and the third person may decide to begin their own romance with or without the knowledge of the original member, or it may create relationship and trust issues. Hence ,if you choose to engage in this behavior ,you guys need to be under no illusion,have to discuss all the potential pitfalls ,set up some rules, be sure that they can handle the baggage and problems that may come or else they might see their romance come to an end.

Could you swim the first time you ever jumped into water? Chances are that you probibly couldn't, and it is unlikely you will feel complitely comfortable jumping in with both feet in this subject either. Dip your toes in first...watch another couple in the same room, or another woman solo but in the same room, then get used to being with each other in the same room as other people whilst they are at it, and slowly, when you feel the time is right, just touch, and the next time maybe a kiss, and on and on. Carry on until you start to feel uncomfortable, and at that stage stop, or rest.

Its clear that you both have needs which arn't fully being met by each other, and its great that you agree to at least concider involving somebody else. Just let the other person know exactly where you stand and how you feel. I hope this helped.

Unless your 100% sure, i wouldn't do it.

Its a big deal and i wouldn't do it ever, it'd be very awkward. Also, like someone else said earlier, would you like the idea of seeing some Random girl (or even worse, one of your friends!!) making love to your boy friend? I know I wouldn't!

Don't do it just because your Bf wants too, your a couple and have too decide things like this together, don't let him force you. Talk it over with him and explain how you feel, if he loves you he'll understand. x

I had a 3sum but didn't know either of the women, hence There were no issues

If in doubt blow it out, you certainly shouldn't feel pressured into doing it. It happened to me with two girls one was into it the other wasn't really, so it made me feel very uncomfortable.Though the fun factor for me over road that but im not sure about the other girl.

This all depends on you and your emotions. You have to think about how you are going to feel during and afterwards. Jealousy would be the biggest emotion you might have to deal with. I wouldn't recommend doing it unless you yourself are going to be 100% happy with it.

Go to Nevada and get a clean professional girl so there will be no emotion or jealousy or worry about stds

I've never heard of a good outcome with this situation.

i wouldn't. someone gets left out and you'll never get the image of your bf fing some other chick.